Never Forget That - Tumblr Posts
can someone please be proud of me like fuck I’m trying
khshajkjshhh :(( ___kinda like a rant about many desi parents, includes topics of anxiety and childhood problems. pls ignore if youre uncomfortable!___ HELLO, SWEETIE!! its mint anon 🍀 ISTG- some desi parents have that generational cycle of embedding fear in their children. I mean, throughout my childhood, my parents have done this. they want "respect." Anything they want, they'd just force me into it by instilling fear as to what will happen "otherwise." Good grades? scare me shitless through strange methods so fing bad I have this HORRID anxiety and stress that affected me PHYSICALLY through out my school years all circulating my grades. and they justify their actions saying children owe it to parents?? their children HAVE to respect them and *obey them?? for what? My mom bought smthing up recently and it was really triggering and i needed to rant. IM SO SORRY FOR THIS THOUGH- ITS SO RANDOM but i cant talk to my friends about this, so i run over to tumblr and anon someone i dont even know irl :/ All that aside, Im so glad you're back, love!!! so much to catch up on!- low key ghosted tumblr for a while but im back and ready to devour everything October has to offer abt re :3 cant wait for your next posts <3 -mint anon. :)
OH NO 😭😭😭 MINT ANON I HOPE YOU KNOW YOU DESERVE EVERYTHING IN THE WORLD
and YES! the fact it's only about owing them because "who gives you a roof to live under, food and water" THOSE ARE BASIC NECESSITIES I SHOULDNT HAVE TO OWE YOU FOR KEEPING ME ALIVE???
desi parents mean well but it's hard to find that when they're acting like that, yk? good grades have always been the staple of my childhood i could get a's in everything but suppose i get a b in math it's somehow irrelevant that im an otherwise straight a student
if you haven't gotten away from them, i hope you keep your head high and never let them get to you!! i love you so so so much and im so happy u were comfortable coming to me with this
I CANT TALK TO MY FRIENDS ABT IT EITHER even my best friend like she'll never get it the way i do cause even tho her parents r also asian they're not my parents level AT ALL.
so ofc! stop by anytime if you need to talk, and always know that i love you 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
Appreciation post for…
💖 Stretch marks
💖 Squishy bellies
💖 Jiggly thighs
💖 Chubby cheeks
💖 Cellulite
He would like to note that she isn't annoying and he loves his wife so much. They're a blessed pair and so into each other and I'm looking forward to many more years of shipping these nerds <3
lily and ganon ( @ourowndemise ) have been together for a whole ass year! bless him for putting up with lily's ramblings and her passions and also being annoying at the beginning lmao. she loves him very much.
I do hate "normal"
I've always hated expectations. The norm. It's always about what other people want you to do, want you to be.
I can understand that there's a need for "normal" in society. Biologically, our brains just group up similar concepts together to better manage all of it. So it intrinsically dislikes what goes out of the norm, what's different.
But it sucks especially when you're what's different. Or don't do what people expect of you, don't dress how they expect you to dress, don't talk or walk or act in the ways they want. If anything, I want to say that I'm never gonna be normal. There are days where I'll be more different, days where I'll be less different, but.. not normal. And if anything, people shouldn't expect you to be whatever you're not. They'll have to deal if they don't like it. But I like different. There's something quite beautiful in different. And everyone is different in a way. Not "special", just different. Unique.
And that's beautiful!