Oh Its Never A Good Day Without Completely Breaking Down Over Your Gender Identity And Having To Accept

oh it’s never a good day without completely breaking down over your gender identity and having to accept the fact that no one will ever truly consider you nonbinary cause you do not meet the androgynous ideal set by both the cishet and LGBTQ+ community. 

This may just be me but do any other nonbinary/ trans folk sometimes just hate the fact that everyone else gets to ignore gender norms except you and the second you do ignore them, you’re almost assured to never get perceived as nonbinary/trans enough to be nonbinary/trans (especially if you’re fat and/or a person of color)? Like if you’re cis, going against gender norms is this great achievement and you’re so cool. If you’re under the trans umbrella tho, going against the gender norms set for you means at best people having free reign to misgender you without ever having to feel bad and at worst, it leads to actual physically harm against you. 

Radfems are like... wow I hate how the patriarchy treats me a very certain way because of my biological sex so I'm going to do the same thing to a group of people who have no power in society while demonizing them under the guise of progressing toward equality

I don't really think skinny people have any sort of grasp on how bad fatphobia is and it's not for lack of trying on fat people's part, skinny people get very vicious when you challenge their privilege

so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god

i am once again begging you guys to stop making fat and chubby characters skinny in your art