Update On This- We've Mentioned It In A Few Posts, But We Have Finally Left Them And And Currently Healing

update on this- we've mentioned it in a few posts, but we have finally left them and and currently healing from the abuse we endured.

to anyone who wants to know who they are to avoid them, please message us privately if you wish to know. we do not want drama. we do not want to invite them back into our lives. we simply want to protect people from what they did to us.

many people will miss the relationships they have, but they are not willing to risk our collective health for temporary happiness.

after spending 17 months with them, we are finally free, and we are going to be okay.

thank you all for your support of us when we made this post originally.

we are currently struggling on what we should do in terms of our relationship with our partner system/fiancé.

long story short, someone in their system abused us for 5 months of our relationship, and they (collectively) are still continuing with behaviors that are invalidating the new boundaries we had to set because of that abuse. they act as though we are abusive/neglectful for this- granted, yes, we are prone to emotional moments that cause lapses in judgement and to panic (which often causes us to not articulate things well), but they have refused consistently to make the changes we need to see to know that they are actively trying to make this relationship safer for us.

they continuously try to ask us for things that invalidate our new boundaries, and make statements that we feel are almost guilt-tripping. we are constantly dreading their next message(s) and all we want is one day without turmoil or fighting..

everyone is telling us to leave, and i know it would be best, but we are afraid of what they might do to themselves if we do.

we're sorry for how much we've rambled here- we just need a place to get all of this out before we lose our minds trying to process it all.

tylenol is not enough i need to be anesthetized

we have a temporary roommate now.

also, to anyone who is interested, we're taking art requests and commissions.

S3LF PORTR41T!!!! 1 LOOOOV3 HOW 1 D1D TH1S P13C3!!!!! X3

You can not selfdiagnose DID. You are fucking embarrassing.

medically recognized, bro.

alter art drawn by someone who helps us with dpdr issues. yesterday/today's been rough.

tw for nonsense imagery, slight hinted blood/injury, non-faced individuals, scopophobia/eyes, ken doll body style