FRIENDLY REMINDER!

FRIENDLY REMINDER!

Today's friendly little reminder is:

JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE USES MICROLABELS (i.e. Demigirl instead of Nonbinary, Demisexual instead of Asexual, Frayromantic instead of Aromantic, etc.) ARE NOT HURTING ANYONE!

ALL THEY'RE DOING IS USING A LABLE (i.e. Demigirl, Demisexual, Frayromantic) THAT'S MORE SPECIFIC TO WHAT THEY'RE EXPERIENCING!

IF YOU CAN'T RESPECT SOMEONE FOR USING MICOLABELS THEN YOU HAVE NO PLACE ON MY PAGE!

Thank you for attending my TED Talk.

I am asexual! Proudly ace <3

I was curious about your post "bi aces are valid"

Bisexual-asexual is a contradiction, do you mean biromantic asexual? or i don't know, please explain 🩷😭 thank youuu

Bi aces wasn’t meant to be read as Bisexual Asexual. It was meant to be read as Biromantic asexual. At the time of me making the post I hadn’t thought of putting “biro” instead of “bi” as I usually just use Bi for both bisexual AND biromantic. (Though, I can see how some may find that contradictory. And I can see how one may misinterpret bi ace as bisexual asexual.)

Here's Something About Me (Updated)

Decided to rework my intro post. The last one was a bit long and some information on that post is a little out of date. Some things have changed, and some haven’t (e.g. I don’t watch Creeped Out as much as I used to).

Anyway, I’m no_fear_queers both on here and on Instagram. If you found me on here and want to check out my Insta be sure to look for the account that has Ellis from Left 4 Dead 2 over a queer flag pfp. (Note: I don’t expect anyone to follow me on here or Instagram. Haven’t expected to get a whole lot of followers on either site since the accounts were made. I’m also pretty sure my Insta page is shadowbanned but that’s not the point.) I’m 22.

I’m transmasculine, ambiamorous and a termcollector. The terms I’m comfortable with being open with on the internet are; queer, angled aroace, ambiamorous, termcollector, transmasculine, and gendervast. This would be the part where I say “among other things” but this is the best I can do to not make things too long. My pronouns are he/they/it/xe/vir/fae. I’m trying out xe/vir pronouns and I’m using fae/faer pronouns as a REPLACEMENT for she/her. (Meaning I’d rather you use fae/fare instead of she/her.) I’m a satanist that’s into Greek and Norse Mythology.

The first name I have given myself is Ellis. Before anyone asks, yes, I named myself after the Left 4 Dead 2 character. In my defense, Ellis has always been my comfort character and to me, it made sense to name myself after him. As for the middle name I gave myself, it’s Ryan.

Nicknames I’ll accept are Eli, Ray, and Rye. I also want to stress that the nickname “Shrimpy” can only be used by my friends. I only want my friends to call me Shrimpy because; for one thing I cannot confirm that I’ll always be shorter/smaller than the unknown person on the other side of the screen, and for another thing, a friend of mine (I will not be saying any names privacy reasons especially since I don’t know if he changed his name again or not) had given me the nickname Shrimpy (also nicknaming me Shrimp) while he and I were leaving PE because he thought it was easier to remember than my dead name. I also figured that he gave me that nickname because I’m smaller than all my friends. (Given I’m 5’ and somewhere around 101-102 lbs whereas my friends are 5’2”-5’7” and weigh over 101 lbs.) Long story short: If we’re not irl friends, don’t call me shrimpy. Only my friends are allowed to do that.

Personality/Mental health wise, I’m an autistic introvert with ADHD, social anxiety and depression. I don’t really like talking to people, especially since talking feels weird. It doesn’t help that sometimes I stutter and sometimes I don’t make sense. It’s something that I found difficult about being social, and on top of that, I’ll either cross a boundary without realizing it or I’ll misinterpret something that the other person is saying. (Can safely say that I’m one of those people that needs the other person to be more specific when talking to me about anything, and I also need the other person to express their boundaries when it comes to certain topics.) Now, putting aside the fact that I’m socially inept, I can confidently say that I’ll be 2 years SH-free on August 3rd 2024.

My interests include: watching YouTube, writing, playing video games, sharks, alligators, greek and Norse mythology, horror movies, drawing, and horror games

My favourite YouTubers are: Markiplier, LaurenZSide, tuv, morbidforfun, iHasCupQuake, Mr. Nightmare, Life of Luxury, Luxury Dark

My favourite book series are: Keeper of the Lost Cities, The Unwanteds and Percy Jackson

My favourite video games are: Left 4 Dead, Left 4 Dead 2, Skyrim, Cooking Champions, Terraria, Minecraft, Animal Crossing New Horizons, The Sims 3, The Sims 4, Stardew Valley, Battleblock Theater, and Sons of the Forest

My favourite colours are: Black, Red, Grey, Blue, Purple and Green

My favourite shows are: Bob’s Burgers, NCIS, Bones, Criminal Minds, Supernatural, Futurama, A Series of Unfortunate Events, Kitchen Nightmares, Hell’s Kitchen, Hotel Hell, Psych, Invader Zim, Dark Shadows (yes, I’m referring to the original 1960s TV series), Mayans MC, Mama Named Me Shariff, King of the Hill, Mr Pickles and Master Chef

My favourite movies are: The Bob’s Burgers Movie, Renfield, Demoric, Smile and The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Books of Blood, Marrowbone, A Quiet Place and Swindle

My favourite bands/artists are: Bad Omens, The Rolling Stones, OOMPH!, Angerfist, 3Oh!3, Simon Curtis, Adam Lambert, Sub Urban, Missio, Ghost, and Behemoth (This list also includes tuv but it’s already enough that I grouped him with my favourite YouTubers)

My favourite animals are a four-way tie between alligators, whale sharks, zebra sharks and leopard sharks

And lastly, my favourite holiday is Halloween

Okay, since this came out to be longer than I originally wanted it to be, that’s all the information I’m giving you.

DNI if you:

Are transphobic

Are bi/panphobic

Are Ace/aro/aphobic

Are proshipper/pro incest

Are a zoophile (furries are okay, people who think it’s okay to have shmecks with animals are not)

Are anti-abortion/pro-life

Support trump

Think xenogenders and neopronouns aren’t valid

Think that non-binary people aren’t real

Disrespect people that use it/its pronouns

Think that the US is a “Christian nation” (spoiler alert, no it’s not, it’s just where you’re FREE to be Christian--for the love of everything unholy do NOT tell me or anyone else to “repent”, your religion prohibits YOU, not us.)

Are a TERF

Think neopronouns are too confusing

Think xenogenders are too confusing (I don’t understand them myself but I’m not being an ass about it)

Think microlabels are too confusing or useless

Think words like “girl”, “bro”, and “dude” are gender neutral

Are racist

Are ableist

Y’all ever have that one actor that gives you some kind of ick? Not in the sense that they did anything wrong; but in the way that makes you question how people think they’re attractive? Or is that just me being Aroace? Cuz I’ll never understand how people think Ryan Gosling of all people is attractive.

FRIENDLY REMINDER #5

BISEXUAL MEN ARE REAL AND ARE VALID

BISEXUAL MEN AREN'T "sEcReTlY gAy"

BISEXUAL WOMEN ARE VALID

BISEXUAL WOMEN AREN'T "eXpErImEnTiNg"

BISEXUAL TRANSMASCULINE ENBIES ARE VALID

BISEXUAL TRANSFEMININE ENBIES ARE VALID

BISEXUAL TRANSNEUTRAL ENBIES ARE VALID

BISEXUALS REGARDLESS OF GENDER (or lack thereof) ARE REAL AND VALID

BISEXUALS ARE STILL BISEXUAL AND VALID REGARDLESS OF WHO THEY'RE DATING

BISEXUALS ARE STILL BISEXUAL AND VALID IF THEY'RE NOT DATING ANYONE

BI ACES AND BI AROS ARE REAL AND VALID

FRIENDLY REMINDER #4

PEOPLE WHO IDENTIFY WITH XENOGENDERS ARE NOT HURTING ANYONE. JUST BECAUSE YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND THEIR GENDER DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO DISRESPECT THEM OR TO TELL THEM WHAT TO DO WITH THEIR IDENTITY. IF YOU FEEL THE NEED TO CHANGE SOMEONE ELSE'S IDENTITY, THEN YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT WHY YOU FEEL THREATENED BY SOMEONE THAT'S NOT HURTING YOU.