Yall Ever Have That One Actor That Gives You Some Kind Of Ick? Not In The Sense That They Did Anything

Y’all ever have that one actor that gives you some kind of ick? Not in the sense that they did anything wrong; but in the way that makes you question how people think they’re attractive? Or is that just me being Aroace? Cuz I’ll never understand how people think Ryan Gosling of all people is attractive.

Here's Something About Me

(Idk I'm bored and thought y'all might wanna learn a little more about me.)

Okay, so hi(?)

I'm no_fear_queers (it's the same on Instagram), but you can call me Ellis. Nicknames I accept are Eli, Rae, Rae Rae, Frank and Frankie. (These are coming from the middle names I gave myself. Which are: Ryan and Francis. And no, I will not be telling you what my last name is.) Now, Shrimpy -which is the nickname I'm using on Instagram- is a nickname given to me by a friend when we were freshmen in high school. And I'm only comfortable with my friends calling me Shrimpy. I was given this nickname due to the fact that I'm shorter than all my friends. (Well, shorter AND scrawnier.)

As of September 23rd 2023 (the day I'm writing this), I am 21 years old. I am an introvert with social anxiety, depression and multiple sensory issues I will not be elaborating on.

I'm transmasculine and agender. My pronouns are he/they/it/fae.

I'm unlabeled, queer, angled aroace, and ambiamorous. My unlabeled and queer labels are referring to my aesthetic and sensual orientation. (Seeing how I experience aesthetic and sensual attraction.) The ace and aro identities I identify with are grey-aegosexual and proxyromantic. I'll get into what those two terms mean in a second.

I won't give too long of a list of things I don't like. Mostly because my dislike list is pretty long. The things I dislike the most -besides conservatives and queerphobia of any kind- are bright colours, bright lights (especially when they're flashing lights--mostly due to a sensory issue), sweet potatoes, rom-coms and weddings. (Mind you, I don't outright HATE weddings. I just don't like them. Especially since I'm not much of a people person.)

My favourite shows are NCIS, Bones, Criminal Minds, Bob's Burgers, Futurama, Supernatural, Creeped Out, A Series of Unfortunate Events, Kitchen Nightmares, Hell's Kitchen, and Hotel Hell.

My favourite movies are The Bob's Burgers Movie, Renfield, Demonic, Smile, and The Rocky Horror Picture Show. (Mind you, I like watching horror movies in general but there's only ever been like the two I've actually enjoyed watching and liked more than others.)

My favourite colours are black, red, grey, blue and green.

My favourite video games are Left 4 Dead, Left 4 Dead 2, Skyrim, Cooking Champions, Terraria, Minecraft, Animal Crossing New Horizons, The Sims 3 and The Sims 4.

My two favourite things to do are write and play video games. And my favourite holiday is Halloween.

Anyway, on to the definitions I promised:

Grey-aegosexual is a microlabel for ace-spec people who partially relate to aegosexuality, but experience it infrequently or very weakly, and may not feel they fully relate to the aegosexual label. One may very rarely enjoy or get aroused by sexual content or specific people, but only under specific circumstances, and are otherwise sex-neutral or sex-repulsed.

Proxyromantic is a form of romantic attraction in which one has a connection with a romantic orientation, or with the concept of romantic orientations, but does not have the will and/or the ability to figure that romantic orientation out for themselves. Proxyromantic could also be considered a microlabel under the term quoiromantic, the main difference being that one feels as though they have a romantic orientation and understands the concept of romantic attraction, but they don't have the will and/or ability to figure it out.

(This turned out to be longer and more of a mess than I had originally planned.)

FRIENDLY REMINDER #4

PEOPLE WHO IDENTIFY WITH XENOGENDERS ARE NOT HURTING ANYONE. JUST BECAUSE YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND THEIR GENDER DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO DISRESPECT THEM OR TO TELL THEM WHAT TO DO WITH THEIR IDENTITY. IF YOU FEEL THE NEED TO CHANGE SOMEONE ELSE'S IDENTITY, THEN YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT WHY YOU FEEL THREATENED BY SOMEONE THAT'S NOT HURTING YOU.

FRIENDLY REMINDER #6

(Bi post #2)

BISEXUALS ARE NOT GREEDY

BISEXUALS ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A THREESOME (unless they're polyamorous and into that kind of thing, but that's not the point)

BISEXUALS ARE NOT TRANSPHOBIC (seriously, y'all need to stop calling them that)

BISEXUALS ARE NOT PANPHOBIC (also need to stop calling them this too)

BISEXUALS ARE NOT HURTING ANYONE

BISEXUALS ARE VALID REGARDLESS OF WHAT OTHERS SAY

BISEXUALS COME IN ALL SHAPES, SIZES, AND COLOURS; AND THAT'S OKAY

Hey you!

Yes, you the person reading this.

You’re valid and I appreciate your existence.

This is your casual reminder that Aroace people are real and valid and in this household we appreciate their existance.