Biromantic - Tumblr Posts
Tumblr is known and also spoken of by its user base for its high proportion of lgbt+ users, but I'm curious as to if the lgbt+ user base is actually as large as though or if its just confirmation bias, so...
For fun if you want put how you identify in the tags and the part of tumblr you'd say you're here for
I am asexual! Proudly ace <3
I was curious about your post "bi aces are valid"
Bisexual-asexual is a contradiction, do you mean biromantic asexual? or i don't know, please explain 🩷😭 thank youuu
Bi aces wasn’t meant to be read as Bisexual Asexual. It was meant to be read as Biromantic asexual. At the time of me making the post I hadn’t thought of putting “biro” instead of “bi” as I usually just use Bi for both bisexual AND biromantic. (Though, I can see how some may find that contradictory. And I can see how one may misinterpret bi ace as bisexual asexual.)
Here's a reminder to the bis (this includes bisexual, biromantic, bialterous, bisensual, biplatonic, etc): You and your identity are real and valid. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Don't let anyone tell you you're not "queer enough" to be LGBTQIA+. Because you are queer enough. (Even if you don't like the term queer.) You also DO NOT need to "just pick one". You're not leading anyone on. You're not more likely to cheat on someone just because you're bi. You are not a fraud. If someone thinks you're just using them as an "experiment", that's on them, not you.
one of my mum's ways of trying to comfort me when i'm feeling self-conscious is by telling me that "there will be a man one day who will love me for who i am"
and there i am, a closeted bisexual greyromantic with a preference for women, sat on my bed, pondering how to tell mum that no, the actual chance of me marrying a man are very miniscule, and no, romantic love won't be the thing that changes my life stop that's so amatonormative and heteronormative i hate both-
Din Djarin is demisexual. And maaaaaaaaaybe biromantic. That Jedi was cute…
Finally finished my bi/ace dragon drawing that I wanted to post for coming out day! It took so long to do with me also doing inktober and taking so long to decide the colors (I don't have enough pink/purple markers for the bi flag lol). But I'm happy with how this turned out. They're super cute!
🖤🩶🤍💜 🩷💜💙
I've been skimming the ace tag to report bots, since I'm recovering from COVID and needed to Feel Productive and... man. It's really heartbreaking the amount of negativity I'm reading from some ace folks absolutely convinced that they'll never have successful and happy relationships of any variety and. Like.
This aging (42) ace (bi/demiromantic 95% asexual, if you need to me establish my credentials) just wants the younger aces to know that MY LIFE AND RELATIONSHIPS TURNED OUT PRETTY GREAT, ACTUALLY. I have a spouse and co-parent who accepts and loves the entire messy package of me, including my copious quantities of mental illness and my ridiculous number of queer letters. I have queer friends that may or may not be QPRs. I'm pretty indifferent the idea of labeling it, I just know that our relationship goes far beyond "just" friendship - they are family. And I'm in a place where I'm able to be as open about my ace identities as I am about the rest of my queerness. Don't fall into the trap of delegitimizing your aceness the way you've been taught! "Partners" don't have to be ROMANTIC to matter. And there are people out there ready and eager to love you for exactly who you are, aceness included.
Shout out to me for writing diverse characters even back when I was anti-lgbt
For example, I wrote a bi nonbinary character and had them correcting everyone who got their pronouns wrong. I didn’t even know what any of that was when I wrote it, I just thought it made for an interesting character quirk.
THE KNIGHTS OF SAINT CHRISTOPHER
Hippidy hay we are gay
hi!! not sure if you've done this before but if you'd like to could you please do a nonbinary flag fox?? your art is really lovely <3
Great minds think alike, so here are some lovely little foxes for you and @fynn-arcana :D
Back at the party, I was so scared and nervous to talk to anyone or even LOOK at anyone-
But, somehow, I ended up making a friend, and honestly, I think I’m gonna like him. It looks like they already like me.
His name is Tedrick.
I just came out to my mom. It was surprisingly, the chillest conversation I’ve ever had with her.
Now, I’ve come out to my friends, my siblings, my grandma and aunt, and now the next person to come out to, is my dad…
I’ll edit this post once I talk to him about it tomorrow, I’m really scared, wish me luck-
EDIT: He’s confused, but he’s trying his best to understand! :D
are you autistic and gay?
lesbian and autistic perhaps?
an autistic pan or bisexual?
asexual and autistic?
trans or non binary and autistic?
any autistic member of the LGBTQ+ community?
well guess what...
you're fucken great and I love you
https://youtu.be/llvmVOp3rQ4
https://youtu.be/SRk_52uQfMY
Sorry- 😅
I made Luz & Amity on Picrew, and I’m honestly not disappointed with how I made them!
(The Sexualities & Genders are just my headcanons.)
This is very out of the blue
But-
Just wanted to talk about
How LITERALLY EVERYONE IN MY LIFE, knew I was Bi, before I did.
And like, there were signs, like, HUGE signs, they were SO obvious.
And I was too homophobic with myself to accept that.
I was completely cool with non straight and non cis people, and supported them 100%.
But when it came to ME, I was just not going to accept it!
Kept INSISTING that I was straight and cis! Like, “I like guys, so I can’t be gay!” “I don’t feel like a guy, so I can’t be trans!” And just wouldn’t let myself accept that I was Bi and Enby.
I even SAID I was Bi, like, before I knew for sure that I wasn’t straight.
I was a tomboy when I was younger, I accidentally came out to my grandma and a random employee at a shoe store-
As I was shopping for shoes with my grandma, I picked out some boyish shoes, and my grandma asked “wouldn’t you want something for girls?”
And out of NOWHERE, I said “They’re not JUST for boys, I should know, I’m bisexual.”
…………
I MEANT to say TOMBOY, which is, which, does not EVEN sound like bisexual.
And I was embarrassed, cause like, HOW?! Does that happen?!
I’m still embarrassed about that to this day!
I’m just HOPING that my grandma forgot about that day, cause it has traumatized me deeply-
Oh, I hope that employee doesn’t remember also-
……
She was cute-
ANYWAYS-
All my friends knew I was Bi, they always asked me if I was Bi. Like, they never asked if I was straight or gay, or pan….they just asked if I was Bi!
I’m not upset about it, it’s just so weird that I was so self conscious about that for so long!
I had cuffed jeans that I liked wearing when I was younger, but because everyone kept saying I was Bi because of the cuffs, I ended up cutting the cuffs to go down. That’s how self conscious I was!
It took A LOT of time for me to accept that I was not straight.
But when I finally accepted it, it felt, so awesome!
When I came out, literally, no one was surprised.
They were all like “We already knew that.” And I was like “But HOW?! How did you all know before I did?”
And all they had to say was “We just got that vibe from you-“
And like, yeah, looking back on literally EVERYTHING I’VE EVER DONE IN MY ENTIRE LIFE-
I see it. And should’ve definitely known sooner.
I got bored, so, look at my headcanons! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Twilight Sparkle - Biromantic Asexual Demigirl
Rarity - Biromantic Demisexual Trans Girl
Rainbow Dash - Lesbian Nonbinary
Fluttershy- Panromantic Cupiosexual Trans Girl
Applejack - Lesbian Bigender
Pinkie Pie - Pansexual Agender
(These are just my headcanons, if yours are different than mine, that’s cool! If they’re the same, also cool!)
