- For Your Ask Game!! We Do And It's Always Curious To Hear If Other People Do As Well!!

🧅 - for your ask game!! we do and it's always curious to hear if other people do as well!!

Omg thank you for the ask!

🧅- Do you have multiple layers?

Yes we do, it's part of the complexity and function of our system, many layers do help in a lot of things to keep the system safe and functional in several ways

In some parts we also have layers who just hold a subsystem or a a place for specific alters to be there

I don't know many of the layers, I'm aware of like... 5 i think? Bt I heard of our mapper that we have like 20 or something like that, he doesn't really like talking about that layers for some reason lmao

Not to make anyone worry, but saying you're a system can make you a target for abusers and bullying.

By stating you're a system

You're disclosing that you went through debilitating trauma at a young age

You're disclosing that you may act like a young child in certain situations, and that child may not know, or understand certain acts

You disassociate to a level where we do not know what was done by/to the collective body

You're telling people that you may have patches of amnesia, disorientation, and where you may split under pressure

Many systems have issues with self harm, suicidal thoughts, substance use disorders and unfortunately, many abusers will take advantage of this

Systems, due to their amnesiac nature, are very easy to gaslight, often by saying that a different part/alter did or didn't do something

But Kyle! What can I do about it?!?

Choose, very carefully, who you tell that you have a system. We try not to tell new people in our life until we're fully trusting that they won't take advantage of the knowledge of the system. Even then, we can count on one hand how many of our in person friends and family are aware of our system.

Avoid linking social media, this includes discord, where you are 'out' about your system to other social media, especially around workplaces. Some workplaces, schools, universities and other places still hold stigma around DID (thank you, Split /s).

Be careful what you tell people about your system: keeping alter counts private, not giving out certain alter's names, using pseudonyms/symbols for alters are some of the ways we've done this. If someone we don't want to know about the system asks about an alter name, the majority of the time, we'll say that they're an OC.

Most people don't know what DID and OSDD are unless they have been in certain circles or happen to have an interest in it, so you are usually safe… but I always air on the side of caution.

Do what you wish with this list, I wanted to put these thoughts out there. Stay safe, feel free to reblog with more ways you keep your system safe.

Drink water, have something to eat, have your meds if you need them, use your mobility aids if you need them, and do something nice for yourself today.

With love,

System Dad (Kyle / 💜)

Ok I know I leave some comments for you OP but I want to repost and add my thoughts, hope it doesn't bother

Endos, pro endos and anti endos, all the three sin of the same mistake and that's the problem with all this syscourse thing, no one is winning, no one can win, it's about making all the whole community into a fight of stances and this is the shit that happens because of it

"What's the shit that you're talking about?"

People being excluded because they don't share the same specific mindset, the system community forcing people to choose a side from syscourse and shit like that, that's the shit I'm talking about, making the system community a endo syscourse one

Tag things as you want, don't include stances or things that doesn't fit you in tags, interact with the tags you like most, use the tags that describe you... It's so bad to see that syscourse makes the tags a problem and distressing

The system, no, the syscourse community is really toxic and shitty, you can't find a good place there, you might think that you can feel understood, like you're ok with them and similar things, but most of the time you're just hurting yourself by engaging with things that upset you and making you part of a discussion that will never stop, it can make you end up worts actually, doesn't matter what side of syscourse you are

Syscourse spaces are very exclusionist, I tell this from experience, and most of the time you'll only see hate, stress and problems, that's what I don't like the system community, I don't like the endo syscourse, I don't like how syscourse now it's a requirement for the system community... That's why I'm not part of it, I don't consider like that, but for content purposes I have to tag it like that tho I'm not

Honestly the best people you'll find in this community are:

The ones who are NOT into syscourse, or if they are they put "neu" because they don't want to deal with

People who don't make their stance their whole personality and put it everywhere

The real good people you'll find are not in the syscourse part of the community, because they can be very double moral and shitty the moment you don't align perfectly with their mind sent

For example me, I'm not anti endos but I don't believe that endo systems are a thing and I don't want them interact, my stance is very complex and yet I've been attacked and exclude from all parts of syscourse, that's why I don't have a syscourse stance public anymore

If you're not breaking boundaries interact with who you want, use the tags you want and don't enter syscourse for your own sake

The good people won't be caring about your syscourse stance

The feeling when interacting with both sides (endos and anti endos) and seeing the bad and good sides of both (both harass people, both can go out of their way to avoid dnis, but also both can bring people closer together, both can post silly fun things, the majority of antis are normally people traumatized by endos fakeclaiming them, harassing them, most antis Do Not go about harassing people. Most endos/pro-endos are trying to be nice, most dont go out of their way to harass people, most don’t agree with those who harass people, most are just living their lives)

Then feeling bad when tagging stuff because I never know what to tag it with because I don’t know which side to choose ;-;

I say I lean anti because of trauma, but as long as people are nice I’m ok to live and let live.

Should we like re-do our sideblogs masterlist??

Like doing it in one big masterlist without any kind of images, stay the descriptions but not pic of how the blog looks like and the masterlist being more of all our sideblogs (or most of them)

Probably would do though... First I need to finish those other four pending sideblogs and probably do the new masterlist

Could you please do some introject blinkies?? Yk like for factives, for fictives, for oc introjects, for fuzztive, fxctives, etc etc?? /nf

Let us know if you need anymore!

More blogs hehehe >:3

BLOG INTRO .ᐟ

Hello hello! Welcome to our personal blog to rant and yap about us and about anything we feel like talking about

We're the blumberg subsystem, main sys account is @persmo and tho we might be active there, specially the host of this subsys, we're gonna be more active and open here in our personal blog!!

If you know at least one of the many sideblogs we own you can interact better with us here, at our blog, or you can do it in our main like, we don't really care

We work on tumblr alongside the main system host, @namelnom, but sadly we can't communicate too well with him because he's not part of our subsys and communication out of our subsys is damn hard, we don't know why T-T

Expect us not just to ramble about us but Tumblr as a whole and our sideblogs because that's part of who we are LMAOO

We're super open to interaction with other people, we love to answer asks and socialize so the inbox is always open to talk, ramble and all of that, feel free to give it a try people!!

Subsystem of 4 alters, tho we're sure at some point we can grow as a subsys LMAO

Why do I say this?? Simply because we're a subsystem of alters dedicated of tumblr, that's right! Our roles is to be here active on tumblr and in the many sideblogs the whole system own, so we can expect that in some point we can become more than just 4... Dod we like the idea of being more??? Not really because the implications, but at this point we can't control it so... fuck it lmao

If we have bad english sorry, we're latin american so.... English isn't our first language LMAO, you can correct us poletitly if you want but probably won't be editing the post if we have bad grammar or something like that so... yeah

We don't have a super wow DNI or boundaries because we're super open mind and we don't like to be in fights or discourse so...

Just don't be shitty ok?? We really don't mind a lot of things but if you're against us or call us things or don't like us or whatever thing like that just scroll and don't interact

DNI: Basic DNI, endos, anti-alterhuman or any kind of non humanity, any kind of discourse blog

Any other thing or boundary you can totally ask it and we would clarify things about it

Our Intros Links!!

Nothing for the moment

Anon Claims!!

Same as before lol

(We're gonna add more userboxes later, we need to do them lmao)