Sooo, Its July 3rd And It Is Still Disability Pride Month, Even If People Arent Talking About It!!!!

Sooo, it’s July 3rd and it is still Disability Pride Month, even if people aren’t talking about it!!!! Today’s assignment:

Take the “Are You Ableist?” quiz!! This quiz is not meant to shame you at all. It gives you easy steps to become an ally to the Disabled community <3

Idk if I can watch Yoons new MVs, I feel so fucking guilty and like I’m a shitty fan but even just the pics and posts about him smoking in the mv are making me so fucking uncomfortable and nauseous. And like I know realistically it’s possibly a fake smoke that actors use when they don’t smoke but it still makes me so fucking uncomfortable. Like I get the reason he’s done it but it’s really fucked with me and I know I have no right to feel this way but ugh. Idk how to describe it. I just feel so fucking shit rn. Like one post made be feel PHYSICALLY pale and nauseous, it was like that feeling when you get the cold sweats.

(TW: mentions of smoking trauma. Trauma rant)

This may be a controversial topic. But if you suspect an idol of vaping or smoking, keep it to your fucking self. If they do smoke I don’t wanna know about it because it genuinely really triggers me when people point it out. Like I know this is a toxic idea but it really fucking changes my view of people when I find out the might smoke. Like I saw a Koreaboo post about an idol possibly accidentally showing a vape on live and it actually made me feel physically I’ll. Like I had a physical reaction and it’s actually made me feel really uncomfortable and shitty. Like my skin went clams and I literally felt myself go pale and my stomach turn. I have huge trauma around smoking and I can’t get over the way it makes me feel when rumours come up around people I look up to smoking. Like I know I have no right to feel like I’ve been betrayed by that idol if they are smoking but I do. And I’m sick of people pointing it out cause i literally feel myself tear up cause it feels like someone I trusted had stabbed me. And idk if it’s the autism or the CPTSD but it makes me feel physically ill. Like I’m not exaggerating when I say it literally made me go pale and feel like I couldn’t breathe. And like it’s not even as if I can try to avoid it because I already fucking do my best to avoid it but I literally can’t because it’s fucking everywhere. And I know I probably sound super selfish and self centred but can you guys just shut the fuck up and keep it to yourself if you suspect an idol of smoking. Like some of us don’t wanna know about that shit and y’all make it impossible to avoid it. I’m so fucking tired. I already feel like everything is going to fucking shit in my life and I’ve already had a fucking breakdown today and I’m so fucking tired and I fucking hate how much this has fucking affected me cause y’all can’t mind your own fucking business and keep your suspicions to yourselves.

As a celebration for the 50th chapter of Before I Leave You by @hollyhomburg here are some moodboards I put together that remind me of BILY and the pack members.

TW: bruises, guns, blood, sad quotes, bite marks, needles, hospital imagery, fire, food, bdsm imagery

Before I Leave you

The pack

MC (Y/N)

Raven’s Writing Room Masterlist

BNHA

Bakugou Katsuki One shots series

Touya Todoroki One shots series

Keigo Takami One shots series

Shoto Todoroki One shots series

Kirashima Eijiro One shots Series

BTS

Kim Seokjin One shots Series

Min Yoongi One shots Series

Jung Hoseok One shots Series

Kim Namjoon One shots Series

Park Jimin One Shots Series

Kim Taehyung  One shots Series

Jeon Jungkook One shots Series

Vampire Knight

Kaname Kuran One shots Series

Zero Kiryu One shots Series

Howl’s moving castle

Howl Pendragon One shots Series

Sophie hatter One shots

Morning Potions and Soft Touches X witch reader {fluff}

Series

Calsifer One shots series

The Arcana

Asra alnazar One shots Series

Voltron

Keith Kogane One shots Series

Tone tags are not your punchline.

Tone tags like “/j” “/srs” etc are accessibility tools. They help neurodivergent people understand the explicit tone of written text that would otherwise be only implicit and therefore difficult for us to understand. If you use tone tags in a joking or disingenuous manner, you’re not only going to end up confusing a lot of people, but it’s also just plain ableist to make a joke out of an accessibility tool, something that a lot of us rely on to understand and communicate with people online.

Especially considering the whole point of tone tags is for them to be used in the most genuine, accurate manner possible, someone knowingly misusing them just means they’re doubling down on their ableist disregard for neurodivergent people who might read it.

If you post something somewhere as a joke but end it with a “/srs,” fix it. Delete it. Don’t do it again. Tone tags are not your punchline.

This disability pride month message brought to you by an autistic ADHDer