Shout-out To Proshippers/darkshippers Like Me Who Partake In The Dark Media We Consume, Not Because We've

Shout-out to proshippers/darkshippers like me who partake in the dark media we consume, not because we've been through the abuse/trauma depicted, but because what we've already been through doesn't feel "valid enough."

I promise you, you aren't bad for having an urge to go through "worse." It's a natural response your brain has when your pain and hurt doesn't feel validated enough. I can guarantee you that whatever you've been through- even if "small"- isn't something to simply be ignored or treated as lesser.

You were hurt, and you deserve the acknowledgement and support for that like any other survivor does. Sometimes people and society just tend to overlook trauma that isn't on the extreme end, even if all trauma is just that no matter the "degree": trauma.

I know it probably doesn't mean much coming from a stranger on the internet, but I'm proud of you for finding a coping mechanism where you don't go out and hurt yourself. Personally I'd rather have you, or anyone in general, consume your darkfiction, than go and seek out abuse in real life.

Man, I'm so excited for the HSR update that'll drop soon. While it won't have Sunday just yet, I still need as many stellar jades and warps as I can get for him.

I love my evil husband so much. I can't wait to drag him home against his will <3

proship positivity time!!

You are not evil for enjoying “icky” things in media, you are not a bad person for what you ship, the way you cope is your business, you have the right to mess around with characters the way you see fit in a judgement-free space, you are not your thoughts, proshippers who aren’t into anything “problematic” are valued members of the community, you belong in fandom spaces, anyone who’s close to you who leaves you for something as simple as being anti-censorship is someone you don’t want to be around anyways!!

Oh and proselfshippers- your f/o loves you!! They love you very much!!

Oh, and let's not forget that being attracted to fictional characters in an incestrious context is also wrong and horrible, but it's 100% a-okay to be attracted to characters that fall into the yandere trope

( which often comes with kidnapping, stalking and murder, if not even more darkfic topics like sexual assault, torture, cannibalism, mind breaking, etc. )!

So, let me get this right:

Being attracted to fictional serial murderers is okay,

Being attracted to fictional terrorists is okay,

Being attracted to fictional monsters is okay,

But being attracted to fictional children is wrong?

Hm, noted.

I just want to say thanks for your blog! It's not usual to find stuff like this!

It's no problem, really! I mean, I literally just like to yap for most of my post, sometimes partake in the selfship stuff by either reblogging posts or making my own imagines, and also like to keep the balance between discourse talk and positivity/acceptance.

Like, personally if I partake in too much discourse, then my mental health start to decline, even if I only stay on the proship side of things. That's kind of why I tend to reblog/post positivity, too, every now and then.

Though I do wonder what you mean with "not usual to find stuff like this," since from what I've seen there's a good handful of blogs like mine. Idk maybe I'm wrong lmao.

My best guess is that you're referring to the proship/pro-kink/pro-para positivity and/or the fact my blog is selfship and proship at the same time, since those are decently rare I think? Idk feel free to elaborate/correct me or not, anon.

So, let me get this right:

Being attracted to fictional serial murderers is okay,

Being attracted to fictional terrorists is okay,

Being attracted to fictional monsters is okay,

But being attracted to fictional children is wrong?

Hm, noted.