Shout-out To Proshippers/darkshippers Like Me Who Partake In The Dark Media We Consume, Not Because We've

Shout-out to proshippers/darkshippers like me who partake in the dark media we consume, not because we've been through the abuse/trauma depicted, but because what we've already been through doesn't feel "valid enough."

I promise you, you aren't bad for having an urge to go through "worse." It's a natural response your brain has when your pain and hurt doesn't feel validated enough. I can guarantee you that whatever you've been through- even if "small"- isn't something to simply be ignored or treated as lesser.

You were hurt, and you deserve the acknowledgement and support for that like any other survivor does. Sometimes people and society just tend to overlook trauma that isn't on the extreme end, even if all trauma is just that no matter the "degree": trauma.

I know it probably doesn't mean much coming from a stranger on the internet, but I'm proud of you for finding a coping mechanism where you don't go out and hurt yourself. Personally I'd rather have you, or anyone in general, consume your darkfiction, than go and seek out abuse in real life.

Never really understood the appeal of vampires, until I read an x reader fanfic where the reader was the vampire.

New kink unlocked I guess.

Man, I'm so excited for the HSR update that'll drop soon. While it won't have Sunday just yet, I still need as many stellar jades and warps as I can get for him.

I love my evil husband so much. I can't wait to drag him home against his will <3

if your harmless fixation helps you heal, go for it. get engrossed in what could save you.

As someone who uses TikTok, I can confirm that TikTok's censorship is kinda ass. Sometimes it's needlessly strict, and other times you can get away with things you just shouldn't really get away with ( like harassment that clearly goes against TOS. )

This means that at times you can say stuff like rape, CSEM, etc just fine. As I've mentioned multiple times on my blog already: I've said rape, kill, porn, etc a few times in comments on a few different TikToks and have yet to get any warnings for it- or any warnings at all on my account.

I've also seen creators say words like "rape" in TikToks on my FYP up until as recent as just here today. Literally saw a TikTok with 31k likes that used the word "rape" ( and a few other "no-no" words that I can't remember ) in it without any censoring.

So yeah, the person replying to your Twitter post wasn't even founded in their claim about censorship when it comes to TikTok, OP.

Editing this rq: I went onto TikTok to find an account of a woman that consistently says words like "rape" in her videos ( some of said videos gaining 100k+ views. ) Look up @/lexxxmaria on TikTok ( without the / ). She reads rancid takes of fx. pro-lifers and incels which often include words like "kill" and "rape," which she does nothing to censor neither the spoken- or written word. Only words I've seen her censor are the ones about genitals aka stuff like "dick."

I ended up making this post which got like...way more traction than I ever wanted. But ppl are missing the point so bad so I'm venting about it. Like this one person??

They're saying shit like "do you live on twitter?" As they are CONSTANTLY bringing up tiktok on every single comment they make. Bitch, do you live on tiktok?? What are we on RIGHT NOW? We are on twitter. I am talking about twitter (because I saw a post ON TWITTER where someone said "There is so much grape in BL") and ppl using those terms irl. Also I don't think it's good to be like "✨️cheese pizza✨️" on tiktok when you're talking about CSEM. Someone also brought up a good point that ppl on tiktok were using "borrowing mascara" as a euphemism for rape. Like?? Also, idk how to tell y'all this, but some victims would like to mute and words so they don't have to see it. If you're making 5000 fucking euphemisms for rape or CSEM, how are victims supposed to mute them all? And also, if you're worried about censorship so badly, you could say C*em or r@p3 or SOMETHING besides child corn. Ffs.

I don't know if it'll help, but maybe going through the "proship dni", "safeship", or "selfship" tags might be useful? If you haven't blocked anyone using those tags, then you might find DNIs that are like "proshitters dni and go kys" or something since you can sometimes find that there.

I'd also recommend checking the people's pinned posts on those tags if you do go through them, since antis tend to hide their DNIs/hate in their pinned/carrds/bios at times for some odd reason.

Either way, reblogging this so others can help out more than I can, since personally I don't really wanna read anti-shippers being hateful right now for my own mental health's sake.

Also not sure if you already have this resource, but just to make sure, here's a link the the fanlore wiki on the term anti-anti ( aka proship ) and the history on it. There should be linked sources in it, too, if needed, and also a link for the anti-shipper page as well.

Either way, hope that helps! :3

Hey my beautiful siblings in ships can you please help me find pictures of anti-shippers theatening people and all in all being themselves (harassing others and stuff)

I'm writing a pdf file for my therapist about fandom history (i'm normal) because i can't talk to my therapist because he doesnt know anything abt fandom lmao