After Watching The Latest Tadc Episode Kinger As A Father Figure Is My New Headcanon No One Can Take

after watching the latest tadc episode kinger as a father figure is my new headcanon no one can take this from me

Pulling back on my support of TPFS because something about this was just weird to me and brings me back to my "don't fucking tell people they're a system" conversation. Not to mention the NSFW type of vibe it has...?

Their content is starting to sound like they want their friends/followers to be systems too and it's giving the ick about someone we used to know IRL. No thanks.

Of course I don't encourage sending them harassment or anything, this is just... something I wanted to bring up and talk about since I mentioned not too long ago that I enjoy their content and recommended them to someone on here.

dude this exactly. when I was back in the server for a short period of time I saw this come up in regards to another system who I honestly think is pretty cool. they kept like harassing them "change your pfp we don't allow faceclaims of real people" and it was shit like this that made us snap and leave before more shit hit the fan.

I get the no roleplay thing in some cases, but for us at least, a lot of our fictives joke about source related events and in some cases have a high level of attachment to their source and memories. I know for a fact malachite in particular makes jokes about his source memories all the time, because that's just what he does. he's relatively source separated, yeah, but he still feels a decent amount of attachment.

and the faceclaim thing mentioning celebrities just feels like fucking bullshit to me. I get it when it's people you personally know like don't do that but celebrities???? people who AREN'T systems do that shit all the time why aren't we allowed to do it?

I'm convinced Aspen hates introjects which is fucking rich coming from her of all people.

The rule I had to change my pfp and everyone was aggressive sounding used no tone tags until they realised

????

I get that the whole no roleplaying thing, but she calls other systems with a lot of introjects "LARPers" anyway, soooo.

Also "expected to have some level of source separation", how about you just don't try to force another system into doing what you want them to do? I do support source separation 100% and alters are not their source, but forcing an alter from a system that isn't yours into changing their name or PFP (unless it's offensive) is just... weird? Though when it comes to PFP's, I'd personally be super uncomfortable if someone used a faceclaim of my body for their alter, but I'm just an average joe out in the wild.

I know this is likely a risky thing to post that alters themselves should choose whether or not to change their name, but that is my honest opinion about it.

yea no you guys didn't have anything to do with why we left. it was more to do with how we just felt so uncomfortable all the time for no reason while just looking at the chat go. couldn't handle being near it. thank god I feel fine now that we're gone and we're definitely not going back

funny how I say I'm planning on snooping in Aspen's server to see how things work out. and then we leave 24 hours later due to what I only can assume to be a trauma response

just having her server in our list was making us anxious for no reason at all.

so yeah. also to clarify from before we do not forgive her for what she's done even though she said her actions were shit. we don't forgive that easy and we did say we won't forgive her if she does.

I hope I didn't have anything to do with that. Like I do want to make it clear anyone can do whatever they want, but also you gotta understand my confusion too, 'cause like ???? /notatyou

Though I don't blame you for leaving either. It really sounds like a mess. As we've mentioned before, we've never been in the server, but if this had happened to us, where we were personally harmed by her and she unbanned everyone and we came back and she gave a "sort of apology" and acted like we were all cool again, yeahhhh, I wouldn't trust that shit at all. Been there, done that with others, never doing it again.

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