Transphobes Who Say Their Pronouns Are Beep/boop Or Something Else In Their Bio Underestimate My Willingness

Transphobes who say their pronouns are beep/boop or something else in their bio underestimate my willingness to adhere to those pronouns

I appreciate every trans person who isn't quite binary and isn't quite nonbinary

Let's get real and talk, As a trans man I don't feel welcome in the trans community tbh. there are so many hateful people in our community, that like to gatekeep or project their own shit on people. I'm so sick of other trans people telling OTHER TRANS PEOPLE that they are not trans because *insert reason here*. Honesty SHUT THE FUCK UP! There is no "right way to be trans".

I'm a passing trans man, who has had surgery, and I still get called a "transtrender" by dumbasses. Like fuck OFF!? Who tf are you to dictate who is trans???

Trans men CAN be feminine.

Trans men CAN be masculine

Trans men Can do what ever tf they want.

LET PEOPLE LIVE.

I'm proud to be trans and it pisses me off that other trans people put other people down, just because they are different from them. I haven't even looked at any trans tags in months because there is always someone putting other trans people down.

Worry about yourself and let people live their life man.

(This isn't directly directed at OP, but I need an excuse to ramble about this stuff lmao.)

I'm not inherently against truscum, either. However, from what I've seen they appear to just use their rhetoric to invalidate other people. That's what I'm against. I have seen so many bad examples of the trumed community that I have trouble believing that anyone who identifies as truscum/trumed is a good person. Because more often than not– and this my opinion– they're a hateful group of people. They hate themselves for being trans, and they hate others who are happy to be trans. And that is pitiful to me.

However, I can understand looking at a GNC trans person, or a non-dysphoric trans person, and thinking "wow, they're making a mockery of something I struggle with. How dare they!" But how dare ANYONE police other people's identities? They can say that they care about these "trenders" all they want, but they don't. It's so obvious that they don't, because if they did, they wouldn't constantly berate these GNC and non-dysphoric trans people. They wouldn't be invalidating their identities. Use your truscum logic to validate your own identity, but don't use it to invalidate others and expect to be accepted by the wider trans community.

Fuck off and let people use xenogenders. Let people use neopronouns. Because as much as it feels that they're mocking your struggles, they aren't. It's their personal identity and it doesn't invalidate their experiences (or yours!). pressuring people to be dysphoric, pressuring them to want to be cis and not have fun with their gender, is ASTRONOMICALLY fucked up.

If a truscum comes across this post, I want you to know that I don't hate you or your group. I hope that you can find peace within yourself, without hurting others. Being trans isn't a disease, a horrendous thing (though it can feel like it is). It can be hard sometimes, but it doesn't have to be ugly.

Have a good moment in time, whoever is reading this post. <3

Wondering if the whole “need dysphoria” to be trans thing” Is actually harming youth

Now I’m not against transmeds/truscums. Im not even against trucutes! But as a teenage person I spend 90% of my time purposefully forcing dysphoria onto me to ensure that I am “trans and not faking it”

It makes me feel like I don’t know who I am anymore. Countless rituals of just me doing the same thing to make sure im trans and not faking it or I get euphoria.

 On those few days I don’t give a fuck, I’m so much more happier. I don’t care if I’m “100% trans guy” or “100% cis girl”: I’m just me! And I’ve heard other people feel pressured too thanks to the dysphoria thing.

It would definitely make me feel less uncomfortable with wearing my own, as I don't really fancy the idea of people clocking me as trans. Not right now.

reblog if you think more cis people should wear pronoun pins

I feel bad for the detransitioners that aren't grifters because detransitioning was already stigmatized (I believe??) before these people showed up.

Also yeah being bald shouldn't be an attackable offense but here we are... additionally, Need I remind everyone that women can go bald, too? What about cancer patients? What about people with alopecia? Going after this detransitioner's baldness— and making fun of baldness in general— harms women, too! That's right, it harms the very people these TERFS claim they are protecting! Ffs...

of course the detransitioner trending right now is a TERF grifter but the fact that people immediately went to attacking the fact that they are bald is maybe perhaps transphobic