Don't Be Afraid To Use The Lesbian Tag. Don't Be Afraid To Use The Wlw Tag. Don't Let The Exclusionists

Don't be afraid to use the lesbian tag. Don't be afraid to use the wlw tag. Don't let the exclusionists scare you away from tags you're allowed to use! Besides, I myself still had an exclus find my shit even though I went out of my way to avoid tags I fear are swarming with exclusionists (without taking into the account that these fucking losers most definitely browse the mspec les/gay tags with the intent of badgering some random small inclusionist blog). I'm not doing that anymore. I have just as much of a right to use the ‘lesbian’ tag as a monosexual lesbian does, and you do, too. Sometimes you just have to say ‘fuck you’ to the people who want you to not exist, as well as those who swear up and down that you don't exist, and that you're harming the community. You've got to claim your rightful spot in the community… that's the best you can do at the end of the day.

Hi, we're endogenic and (obviously/lh) support endo systems. Do note that there's a fuckton of discourse on this blog, so please be careful if you're not into that but still wish to follow.

Also in regards to getting anti endo blogs on your dash, the block button does wonders! Unfortunately, it doesn't prevent EVERY anti endo post from ending up on your dash, but it definitely helps a lot. :)

-Mephiles

Oof we really need more pro-endo and endo/nontraumagenic system blogs to follow and interact with because tumblr has a nasty habit of filling our “for you” dashboard with anti-endos for some reason and it’s super annoying. So if you’re pro-endo, a nontraumagenic system, etc. then please follow us and we’ll follow you back (the follow will come from our main blog infantalloy though)

Note: being neutral is not what we’re looking for

people love it when lesbians are some guy until those lesbians are actually some guy.

people love lesbian masculinity, lesbians who use he/him and lesbians who are just some guy, and lesbians who call themselves boys and men and guys and dudes, and lesbians who are indistinguishable from men until they come too close to actually being men.

people love it when you blur the lines between gender, but they don't want you to blur it too much, otherwise you're not a real lesbian and you're invading lesbian spaces. if you blur the lines too much, flirt with the concept of being a man too much then you might as well be committing a hate crime because you explored gender in the wrong direction.

accepting that gender is a spectrum includes acknowledging that yeah, that spectrum includes lesbian gender, and yes, sometimes lesbian gender overlaps with being an actual honest to god guy. this is not something that will change, so i recommend making peace with it.

Love how I have to actively and carefully skim a blog before deciding to reblog a post because I find out the poster& is (often very vocally and grossly) anti endogenic.

I dunno how to tell you that we're all in this together. That endogenics (or any other system type) are just as human as you are despite your vitriol towards them. You being hateful to another person& just because you won't take the time to learn about something won't make us look better to singlets.

Nothing will make us look normal to singlets. Because we aren't existing to be palatable towards them, or anyone. We're existing for ourselves. Or we should be.

Look at these beliefs that singlets themselves have drilled into your head and unlearn them. They don't want any of us to exist, let alone the types of systems they put in diagnostic criteria that isn't accurate anyway. Stop being insensitive and ableist for all of us. ☘️

gender and sexuality is a fickle thing. sometimes two gay cisgender men will be dating for decades and one of them will turn out to be a transgender woman. a lot of times that won't work out but sometimes it will. her partner may still choose to identify as gay. She might even identify as gay, and they continue to be happily in love. Queer politics isn't going to get any better if you don't accept that situations like that happen every day.

Intersex and multigender solidarity is defending tf out of dyadic multigender people’s ability to be transfemmasc, AFAB transfem/trans women, AMAB transmasc/trans men, boygirl, etc. none of these labels are intersex exclusive and Im tired of people treating as such.

-Anintersex multigender

I actually really appreciate that! I recently started identifying as transfemmasc and there seems to be a lot of backlash and people claiming that it's intersex exclusive (which there is no source for), so it's very nice to see some intersex/multigender solidarity :)