Not To Sound Like A Terrifying Communist Or Anything, But I Think It's Bad When We Let People Die From

Not to sound like a terrifying communist or anything, but I think it's bad when we let people die from preventable causes.

Friendly reminder that you aren't the problem, exclusionists are.

idk man i think that if you can read dozens and dozens of trans men talking about how their support systems abandoned them when they started getting too masculine on T or had top surgery or whatever, and queer spaces started treating them like threats or potential predators, and you find these stories going back to the 90s or even earlier, and you read all of that and come away thinking that there’s nothing wrong with how progressive communities treat men, you are just fundamentally beyond help dude. you don’t see us as people

i love being aro i love being a bi lesbian i love being a genderqueer girlbutch boyfemme i love having a gender that feels like stars and willows and roses i love respecting other people and the infinite vastness of queerness i love having a gender and sexuality experience influenced by my autism i love being queer in a political and social way i love being visibly queer i love the guy who got excited about my queer shirt today and the young person who told me my openness made them feel more open and the trans guy who worked at a store i went to who i'd never met before and was ranting about body standards with after 5 minutes i love the many young closeted kids who have approached me thanking me for the shirts i wear while cautiously making sure their parents couldn't hear them i love the friend with whom i mutually offered to take in another friend with transphobic parents i love the friends i've made being queer and the things i've learned and the community i've gained and i even love the anger and the pain because that is what will inspire me to change the world and i love that. i love being me.

FRRR

Okay I'm gonna overshare a bit (trigger warning for violent stims under the cut)

When I get really angry, I tend to hit myself in the head repeatedly.

One time, I decided to look up whether this tendency would have really bad effects in the long term... and instead got a lot of articles aimed at parents with autistic kids. It's really embarrassing tbh💀💀💀

I hate hate hate hate HATE that most of the time when I’m searching for info on autism the results always regard autistic children and are written by allistic adults for allistic parents who hate autistic children

Like I’m just going “hehe hey google do other autistic people sensory seek in carbonated drinks” and Google is like “DUMB STUPID LITTLE AUTISTIC BABIES REALLY LIKE DRINKING DUMB STUPID LITTLE AUTISTIC DRINKS LIKE SPRITE AND COKE BECAUSE THEY’RE DUMB STUPID LITTLE AUTISTIC BABIES!!!!!”

Best friend. The autistic kids you’re writing about so unkindly are going to become adults. And they’re going to be unhappy when they read that shit.

no, i'm going to say it.

I am SICK of mogai blogs not being accessible. I personally don`t even have vision problems or issues reading TQs and these new mogai blogs are still really hard to navigate for me.

Like yeah, they look pretty and that TQ is cool but they are such a pain to navigate.

I know that these blog layouts and TQs and what not are a form of self-expression but its also so so so ableist. Very, very, ableist.

If you can't even make your blog the littlest bit accessible or translate your TQs (or request somebody else to help you translate them) just block me.