Normalize Xenogenders Not Being All Cutesy And Shit. Sure, The Ones That Do Fit That Description Are

Normalize xenogenders not being all cutesy and shit. Sure, the ones that do fit that description are valid ASF, it's just that people seem to get their panties in a twist when somebody makes a gender that isn't RainbowFlowerPup gender or something. They would probably try to cancel me after seeing The Section™️ in my hoard.

Some people are going to tie in dark things to their gender.

i’m seeing a lot of people reblogging suicide hotlines and this is just a reminder that this is a suicide help line that works like a text-based instant messenger for people who may need to talk to someone but have trouble/are uncomfortable making phone calls

Real

conditional acceptance is NOT acceptance

if you cant accept ALL queer identities, you are a queerphobe!

queer liberation includes all queer labels, including the ones YOU don't like!

because this always comes up:

the word hermaphrodite is a slur when used to talk about human beings

it is also inaccurate to describe (most, if not all) intersex people in that way

“true hermaphrodite” is sometimes still used to describe someone with ovotesticular syndrome. it is up to an individual person whether or not they choose to refer to themselves in that way

also ovotesticular syndrome is one of the less common intersex variations

intersex people will sometimes choose to reclaim the word, but many of us prefer not to use it

if you are not intersex stop using the word hermaphrodite to refer to human beings

LMFAO, and then there's the '...wait a minute' moment

The 'this autism meme is relatable but I'm not autistic lol' to 'I am definitely autistic' pipeline

Your needs aren't you "being difficult."

I've come to realize that I've been masking from a young age, even if I wasn't good at it when it came to social interaction. I've felt the need to be as unproblematic as possible my whole life. All I wanted to do was fit in, even if people still bullied me and avoided me. But lately? I've been losing the ability to care, because apparently people still clock me.

I still suppress stims as much as possible due to self consciousness, but I'm voicing my discomforts and needs more often. I am the definition of 'acting more autistic' since finding out that I am autistic, because I was trying to be something I wasn't my whole LIFE, wondering why my peers HATED me, why their parents looked at me with disdain when I got 'too loud' as a child.

And if you have a similar story? Good for fucking you. You aren't faking, or being theatrical for literally being MORE AUTHENTIC TO YOURSELF. I'm so TIRED of allistic people saying I look like I'm acting when I show atypical discomfort towards a situation. I'm tired of being painted as difficult for having fucking boundaries. Jesus Christ.