It Sucks That There Are So Many Anti Endos In The Traumagenic Tag. Even Though We've Mostly Distanced

It sucks that there are so many anti endos in the traumagenic tag. Even though we've mostly distanced ourselves from the 'endo' origin term, it's still frustrating to see so much hostility towards others who happen to have different system experiences.

It's so much easier to just be chill about things like endogenic systems, I truly don't understand why someone would waste their time screaming about something they won't bother to understand.

I am foaming at the mouth right now because this is exactly how I feel??????? Holy fuck thank you for this

Dysirgirl

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Dysirgirl: a gender (& possible dysphorigirl (link) subterm) for identifying as a girl, but also feeling dysphoric about it/being perceived/associated as a girl, due to: not being aligned with femininity and/or woman-hood, being alterhuman/nonhuman, being genderqueer, being mutligender, being genderweird, being genderfluid, etc.

Etymology: dys(phoria), “ir” latin for not, girl

for anon!

@radiomogai , @thecoffeecrew404

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Imagine a massive dog approaches you and just fucking goes 'miaw :3'

Not to downplay the positive message of this post with negativity, but that situation reminds me of how quickly otherkin and what have you are thrown under the bus by trans people, in order to uplift themselves. "Obviously nobody goes around thinking they're an animal, that's ridiculous! We trans people are supported by SCIENCE!' And while the latter statement about science is true it feels like further invalidation of nonhuman identities. I get the feeling of walking on eggshells around the trans people who say that kind of thing, because as a trans nonhuman entity I know part of my identity is a joke to even my fellow trans beings. It's really sad.

I had a coworker laugh today and say; "We can't line them up boy girl because what if one of them is non-binary or identifies as a wolf?"

This was a joke to her. A mockery of the very idea of being either of those things. She did not say this in the spirit of progression.

I had to sit there, both non-binary and non/alterhuman, realising that to this woman both of those things are linked. Not just linked, but identically ridiculous and worthy of mockery. Otherwise, why start laughing at the suggestion? Why would she and the person next to her be chuckling hard enough to go red? What was funny about the statement, other than the implied stupidity of the identities? Nobody else laughed, and the subject was quickly moved on and taken more seriously. Because yes actually, the person who brought it up had in fact at her last school stopped lining kids up boy-girl because it was pointlessly gendered and didn't always solve the 'messing about in the line' issue just because two kids of the 'same gender' were next to each other.

Anyway my point is, when people like this and many more like it already link queerness especially transness with non/alterhumanity in a negative way, I don't think we should be shy about doing it but in a positive way too. Let's reclaim this link between identities by promoting the beauty and validity of both of them.

*crashes through wall* who the FUCK said 'pspsps'?

Watch this I’m gonna summon all the therians

Pspspspsps

Bet

Right corndogs if this gets 300 notes I'll buy a collar