Being A Guy In The Queer Community Is Not For The Weak.

being a guy in the queer community is not for the weak.

it's so irritating to me to see stuff like 'xenogender playlists' and it's all cutesy and upbeat. there never seems to be representation for the xenics like me with darker genders... hell, even the main flag is cutesy. I get that if you were to try to capture every way someone can be xenic in one playlist, it'd be a clusterfuck of a playlist. But if it were up to me, there'd be more xenogender playlists with metal and shit, or at least stuff that wasn't just overly preppy and 'uwu'. I may actually make a playlist (chances are I will never actually make a playlist) that matches my gender better because I feel so unrepresented that I have to take things into my own hands.

genuinely so funny to me how Emily fr just ripped off the whole flag so now her version - which is literally just flipped, how unoriginal - is seen as THE lesbian flag. she's like some lesbian messiah to people for creating THE flag, and it's not even her design. you can't just flip someone else's creation and call it your own💀

@butchspace I loooooove your orange butch flag. and i thought it’d be cool to splice together the lipstick lesbian & orange butch flag. as well as add the More Color More Pride stripes.

and mod T from butchspace suggested a great idea of having the white stripe symbolize those who dont ID as femme or butch.

 i think this combo would be a great flag for the general lesbian community. i always see the lipstick femme flag used as the default for the lesbian community on tumblr. which is an act that treats femininity as the default, and makes butches feel left out and ignored.

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I'm intersex, and I do not care is someone wants to use xenoAGABs. It's not that serious. If you resonate with something like assigned twig at birth or whatever it's none of my business, do what feels right.

Hey I’m new here and I have a question. So, I’ve heard of these things called ‘xeno AGABs’ and I really identify with them, they feel important to my identity but I’ve seen some people say that they’re wrong/intersexist. I’ve also seen people say that they don’t matter and they’re fine. Is it alright if I use them in good faith? -Chronic

Hey btw the human brain is super fucking complicated so everyone experiences things differently and lives differently, so stop calling others fakers for being different

And: Yes, I am referring to endogenic systems here. Yes, I am referring to people who use xenogenders. Yes, I am referring to people who struggle with empathy and sympathy. And yes, I am referring to all of you that are different.

You have no proof they are faking. You have nothing. They are just trying to live their life. Go back to doing that yourself.

Sincerely,

A really annoyed punk that can’t see why we can’t just accept eachother