How Many People In The LGBTQ+ Group Have The Problem Of Feeling Like Your Sexuality/gender Is Just There

How many people in the LGBTQ+ group have the problem of feeling like your sexuality/gender is just there for attention?Like you're only saying your those things because you want attention?But nobody knows about it anyway so how is it for attention?;^;

I'm Non-binary,a Lesbian,Asexual,& Demiromantic.

I'm also not out to anyone about most of it,my family & friends know I'm a Lesbian,that's it.

So I tell myself I'm not saying these for attention using that,but i still feel guilty about it somehow.

Also,its the same with coming out,I haven't wanted to come out because I don't wanna hinder anyone with this stuff.My preferred pronouns are They/Them,but everyone I know has always known me as She/Her,I don't wanna bother them about having them change it.I known they would,but it feels wrong to ask that of them,especially since I know they'd do it if I asked,because they care so much,I shouldn't ask them for more than I have.

What do I do?I've been stuffing my face with candy the last few weeks thinking about it.TwT

More Soulmate Ideas!

Everyone is mute until they touch their soulmate for the first time,the first person they ever speak to is their soulmate.

Everyone is born with a unique pattern/symbol on their pupil(s),the only one(s) that have the same symbol is your soulmate(s).

Everyone is born with a plant wrapped around their wrists,the only one(s) that have the same plant is your soulmate(s). The flowers will wilt & fall off when your soulmate dies.If you have more than one soulmate,you will have different flowers on each wrist,your soulmates will be the same,having yours & each others flowers on different wrists.

Everyone is born with an animal/pet that follows them around,the animal will react to people,but will react in a more affectionate way when it comes to your soulmate(s).They won't rub up on other people,they may hiss/growl/bite/attack people who are not your soulmate.

After thoughts of this idea:Having your animal taken away by your parents is a rare punishment,it usually only happens when the his has done something pretty bad.

Abusive parents lock the animal away when the child is young because they don't want the kid to find love.

I just remembered that the Ice King in adventure time pretty much writes fanfiction about everyone he knows.I think this should be appreciated more.

My mom & aunt told me about something today,my dad died of cancer a few years ago,he was still going to work though.He had skin cancer that spread,causing him to develop brain cancer.

His boss made him work outside even with his skin cancer because he refused to quit,we're pretty sure they effected the outcome of his life.

The people at his work thought he was faking his cancer because he wasn't getting super skinny,I also know someone my aunt knew had the same problem.

Just because someone has cancer doesn't mean they get super skinny!

Just because they don't get super skinny doesn't mean they're faking it!

HOLD UP HOW WAS I NOT AWARE OF THIS

I was thinking about which Undertale characters would like me,my choices were Toriel,Asgore,Sans,& or Alphys.I then realized that if I was friends with Alphys,I'd be able to show her all my favorite anime!I personally think she'd enjoy Ouran Host Club!Its cute,gay,funny,dramatic,& all around something I feel she'd watch the heck out of!Anyone agree with me?=3