I Finally Came Out As Nonbinary To My Family,but I Did It On My Terms,in My Own Special Way.

I finally came out as nonbinary to my family,but I did it on my terms,in my own special way.

To my sister and BFF I just came out to them seriously,but to my mom & aunt it was great.It made my aunt fear I was breaking down because I told her at 12 at night.

How I told me mom:

"Your oldest child's gender has died under mysterious circumstances. From now on, they would like to be referred to as They/Them. If this is too difficult at any point, they understand & will respond to She/Her if neccessary.

They thank you for your time & cooperation in the future."

How I told my aunt:

"Your sister's oldest child has murdered their gender, it had been harassing them their whole life. They are letting you in on what happened to the missing gender. Please pretend said gender never existed in the first place. The murderer would like to by referred to as They/Them.

Thank you for your time & cooperation in the future."

I enjoyed the fuck outta it! I came up with these phrases at night.

Me:*Tells my family & close friends that I'm a lesbian*

Them:*Supporting me*Okay!

Me:Okay,I finally figured out what I am,I feel more at peace with myself than I ever have before!I don't have to worry about this kinda thing anymore-

Gender Identity:Sup

Me:*jumps in surprise*What The Fuck!?

Gender Identity:*Chuckles*I bet you never thought you'd have to deal with me!

Me:*Internally Screams*

Sexuality:Hey,so uh...I'm actually not done yet

Me:What..?

Sexuality:Yeah,uh,I'm actually just gonna throw a few things out there real quick,if you don't mind.

Demiromatic:Hello

Asexuality:Hello

Me:*Internal screaming intensifies*

Some things that I've found out that I wish I could have known sooner because it would have helped my stress levels!=3

-Tall people don't have to be tops(I am 5'8,so I was worried because I am a definite bottom ;^;)

-Non Binary people don't have to all be androgynous,they can be more masculine or more feminine while still being Non Binary.

-There are different transitions,not just MTF or FTM,I feel more people should know those aren't your only options when thinking about transitioning.

When I was in middle school,I was in a relationship with this guy,my sister & I were close to him & his sister.We would go sleep over at their house about every weekend,so we were all close,but our relationship was just us hanging out & hugging.

One day,he walked over to my house, because he only lived a few streets over, he came over & told me he wanted the relationship to move forward,like kissing & stuff.

He asked if we could go on a walk sometime,I told him that we could on monday after school,he agreed & left. Little did he know that I set him up for failure because I'm a b¡tch,I had tutoring after school on mondays.I feel so bad for that,we never talked about it,but I did it because at that point I had started to realize that I was into girls.

If I could apologize to him,I would,but he moved later that year,I lost most contact with him & his family.

This is stupid to talk about,but I wanted to get it off my chest,I've been guilty about this for years.

I knew he did like me,but I didn't like him the same anymore,I'm a bad person,but I'm still glad he wasn't my first kiss. -w-

So,my dad died a couple years back,I regret a lot of things I did or said,or things that I didn't do or say.That's a whole other thing on it's own though,so I won't get into that.

I've always wondered how my dad would have reacted if I had told him I was Bisexual.

At the time he died,I thought I was Bisexual & identified as female,but I often wonder how he would've react if he knew I'm a Nonbinary Ace that likes girls.

I hope he'd be proud of what I've become,even though I'm still a lazy person ;w;

I recently remembered something my parents told my sister & I when we were younger, it horrified us.

They had this headboard with a big mirror in it, so to make sure we didn't break it, they told us that if we did, we'd fall in & down to hell, or just keep falling into the void.

Best parenting, right?

I love my mother.

I asked my mother about this a month or so ago & she told me it was true,I told my sister & she had forgotten that they had ever told is that,but she thought it was hella funny.

To this day, our mother swears its true, even though the mattress is short enough for us to see the underside of the headboard, but idk, maybe it's true, I've never personally tried it out, so maybe it does lead to hell or the void or something.