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Hey pussy bois and hot Sirs! I thought everyone would love to hear that Sir and I are doing well. We had a FUCKING awesome play time on Saturday this week. I had such a raging hardon that just wouldn’t go down hehehe.

On Wednesday this week I surprised Sir by relocking my dick in his cage. We had kind of taken a break from the chastity stuff for a while when I was working on trying to become a top. I though that the cage would affect me trying to top by making my dick nervous about getting hard since he can’t in the cage. Boy was I wrong lol. The cage is making my dick head more sensitive. Which I can say was helping in my topping since I could feel more when sliding in and out hehehe.

I have realized that my masturbation style may be causing me to have issues with playing with others. I don’t use lube and I don’t pump my hand up and down my dick. I put my fingers along one side of my shaft and my tumb on the other side and then I manipulate my shaft with my fingers. Manipulating my nerves but not really moving my hand. So now we are going to try and get my dick use to lube. The up and down isn’t an issue anymore hehehe but I have the issue that I get super hard and have tons of fun but I can’t get off grrrrrrr.

I NEED to get off lol. But besides that issue which I know we can overcome the play time was sooo much fun. I wish it could have been longer but we had other plans. Always next time hehehe

Hi everyone. Hope everybody is having a nice day. I know I had an awesome one this past Saturday. Sir and I met up for our weekend play time which was most fun.

We did things out of order this time and headed to the hot tub first. Sir needed to warm up a little. When he isn’t warm he isn’t warm lol. One time he felt like an ice box he was sooo cold lol. It was nice to start with a nice soak in the hot tub. Its a major perk of playing at the club.

We took a kind of lazy approach to the day. After the hot tub we lounged about and chatted and then headed to the club gym for Sirs Saturday workout. These workouts are really helping Si get buff. His chest and arms are mmmmmmmm delicious hehehe. And it is sooo much fun to be Sirs trainer. I even teased him by bending over in front of him while he was trying to do a workout hehehe. I’m such a bad boy :)

After the workout the dirty fun began hehehe. It was a full day of edging both me edging Sir and Sir edging me hehehe. My edging isn’t always intentional but it does produce some great results. I really enjoy when Sir can’t take it anymore and HAS to get off. So he has me lay down and he jacks on my abs while I play with his nips and chest :). Boys if you Sir works out I suggest doing a deep massage on his chest muscles while he is jacking. My Sir produces soooooo much happy energy when I do that I could live off it for months hehehe :)

Well I’m off to work boys and Sirs. Talk to you guys in two days after Sir and I get to play tomorrow :)

Some Helpful Tips for Those New to BDSM

1. Take it SLOW - I know you are excited. You want to just jump right in and do what you saw at the movies, on television or read in a book. If you take it slow, you greatly reduce the chance of anyone getting injured or mentally scarred by what happens.

2. CONSENT - This is HUGE. I cannot stress enough the importance of have the consent of all that are involved. This means Dominants and submissives BOTH. Consent is the cornerstone of all BDSM activities and without that, it is abuse.

3. COMMUNICATION - Second only to consent, communicating your needs, desires, limits and expectations is crucial. If you cannot communicate to your Dominant what you want or cannot communicate to your submissive what you are comfortable with, you need to stop and reconsider.

4. Practice, practice, practice - Another important thing for Dominants, especially those into impact play (striking with floggers, canes and even the hand) is practice. Hit yourself with the flogger first. Understand how it feels. Learn how the same strength strike with one toy differs from another and still differs from a bare hand. This will help you understand what you are doing with your submissive.

5. Aftercare - This is crucial when conducting any sort of scene, especially those that involve impact play. This can truly stave off “sub-drop” which you can think of as a short term but often bad depression. You are responsible for your partner before, during and AFTER a scene. It doesn’t end just because you got off. Make sure your partner is alright. Warm blankets, water, cuddling, lotion on a red rear and of course tender words will go a long way here.

6. Real Life Does Not Equal Porn - I don’t care who your submissive is, one does not simply start shoving things into orifices without build-up or knowledge. I don’t care what you saw on that porn movie, you are not going from “exit only” to a 2-inch wide butt plug in a matter of seconds, nor are you sticking that industrial sized rubber dildo into a vagina that’s never known anything above “human sized”. This can lead to serious injury and potentially life-threatening situations. So, before you go crazy with the internal use toys, step back and re-read number one above.

If you follow these, your start into a BDSM life will be far better and much less harmful to you and others. Enjoy. - Ian

Boy, I am so very proud of you and everything we have been able to accomplish.  This has been and continues to be an awesome experience.  Yep, communication is KEY to us both getting what we need out of this and when we discuss training you and what you want to become, it has been really awesome to be able to help grow that.   And yeah, YOU BOY have turned me into a total spanko.  I LOVE not only the sounds you make, but the way that ass of yours jiggles when I strike it and when I hit harder and harder near the end of run of slaps and you arch up... that means I am doing well. :)  You might have created a monster, and I am very happy monster! :)

Humpa humpa hump

Hey everyone. I hope everyone is having a smashing day :) I certainly had a fucking awesome night last night. Sir and I had our midweek play time last night and I have to say it was totally awesome! Hehehe.

Sir gets into VERY competitive streaks where he wants to beat me in our exercises. Have him get close to you in weight and reps and he really tries to surge forward and over take you lol. Since he didn’t workout Monday since we couldn’t get together (I had to take mom to dr.) So he had plenty of energy for the gym yesterday lol. He hit those weights WAY harder then I would have. He is going to be soooo sore. Espically after I ramped up the rest of the workout to meet what he was wanting to go. He regretted that about half way thru the workout hehehe.

But the true highlight of our play time was me fucking Sir for our longest time ever. I mean I got hard and stuck my happy dick in his fucking delicious ass and fucked away. I’d say we at least doubled the time my dick was in his ass plowing away at his prostate hehehe. I even was leaking while fucking him. That has NEVER happened before :) mmmmmm I can’t wait to get back on that ass grrrrrr.

But as usual my dick went soft after a while. He is still getting use to being an active participant where he rubs and goes up and down but he is getting there. By the amount of precum he was leaking he was having a FANTASTIC time :)

Now enough with me and my development. My Sir has made some wonderful developments himself hehehe. When we first started playing together Sir was not into spanking. He had childhood issues that many people have involving spanking that I can totally understand about. But for me he tired spanking me. We went slowly so both parties could get use to the situation and so we both could develop the trust for spanking. Kink play requires A LOT of trust between the people involved. If you don’t trust the person you are playing with either if you are the Sir or boy then the relationship won’t work. The Sir wants to kbow that the boy will speak up before the Sir accidentally hurst his boy. That isn’t any fun. And the boy wants to trust that his limits will be respected and pushed lovingly if that has been agreed upon. When this happens then you get the best play where both parties are getting what they need out of the session and boy dis Sir get what he needed hehehe. Sir has been on this kick that he wants to spank me harder and harder these last two play sessions. He really likes to hear me moan and squeal while working over my ass with his hand and paddle and he really let my ass have it last night. He smacked my ass soooo hard with the paddle last night I had to stop him after the last hard smack. It felt good but I wasn’t going to be able to take another one lol. (Scratching my ass thinking about it lol) after that push we stopped and discussed limits. It is good to push and I like Sir being able to show off his new muscles but you always discuss the new limits after puahing them so both people are on the same page.

:) I am very happy with my Sir and I am sooo glad that I can keep him satisfied in all we do. That is our role boys. To make Sir happy and proud of his boy. What have you sone today to make Sir happy :p

Hehehe hope you guys like this pic of me in my tighty whities getting a good spanking from Sir. We have a code that if I wear white briefs I need a spanking and boy did Sir need to give me a spanking. He was dying to give a hot boy a good spanking over his need. I got his hand and his georgous wooden paadle that heats my seat real well. And unlike his last one, my ass hasn’t broken this one yet hehehe.

Play time on Wednesday was tons of fun. It was a flip fuck night hardcore. We have never flip fucked before but we both think its really hot so we decided to give it a try. Espically since my dick was at FULL attention the last time Sirs dick was knocking at my hole lol.

So Sir got me hard and I topped him but my dick just didn’t want to cooperate so Sir flipped me over and took a crack at my ass. Man was that fun. Sir didn’t penetrate but he did get off by humping my ass hard. My dick was soooo happy with that play he wants to do it again hehehe. Then after Sir was jacking me a litte and teasing my dick I got super horny and fucked his ass and I mean I went to town. My dick is reminiscing about that ass. He still has a hard time with being an active participant but he is learning and enjoying this new role. Both him and I can’t wait to play with Sir again tomorrow hehehe

Cuddles!

Hey boys and Sirs. Hooe everyone is ready for an awesome weekend. I am :) Sir and I are going to play today hehehe. But I couldn’t be a good boy without posting about our Wed play time. Its a little late but its been a busy week for me. Cant wait for this weather to stick to one season so I can finally get some sleep lol. Wednesday play was light and fun. Sir is back to working out at the gym so we spend about 45 minutes working his ass out before getting down to the real fun. His chest, arms and shoulders are really developing fast umpf. Grrrr he is quickly trying to catch up to me on several different workouts but so far he might surpass me only on the tricep cable pull downs. He is kinda cheating since the weight feels less at the club gym then at mine :p hehehe.

I am so pround of Sir that he has been keeping up with and even wanting to workout three days a week. I get to see him all three since he has to workout at the club or he won’t that day lol. We all know what that feels like. You say you’ll do it at home but you really don’t lol.

So the workout makes Sir a little sore and tired which I use to my advantage hehehe. Hump hump hump hehehe. Now this time we were focusing on getting me off since it has been awhile. I use to be able to get off with Sir working my nips and cock but for some reason my dick has decided to lock up and not want to get off at the club. It’s very annoying but we are working on it. Too mamy years of jacking alone have made my dick a little special lol. But he dis have fun with Sir riding him hehehe. That was totally hot. I wish that I’d have the confidence that my dick would stay in so I could really go to town. That will come with time :)

Well you guys have fun. I’m going to get some errands done and then plow my Sir into the bed hard hehehe