; Plus Imagine Being Like Years In The Future Sitting In Your Home Trying To Follow A Recipe Younger

; plus imagine being like years in the future sitting in your home trying to follow a recipe younger you wrote and js laughing at how different your handwriting is now. How different you wrote and spoke through literature, how differently you documented your recipes and dammit you didn't list how many eggs to use, forgetful fuck .. And you're there wondering where all the time went, almost sad that you're older now. Then you remember it was spent living and enjoying your life; even if it wasn't always the happiest, maybe it wasn't the life people expect to bring joy. But it did, you're there today baking from a recipe book you started writing young, and you're alive because life doesn't have to have some super secret meaning or value to matter. It can be as simple as you're alive, why not live while you can ? Not everything has to be complex and confusing to be unknown, so why does something have to be complex and sad to matter ? Back to baking those brownies now !!

You should be starting a recipe book. I don't give a shit if you're only 20-years-old. The modern web is rotting away bit by bit before our very eyes. You have no idea when that indie mom blog is going down or when Pinterest will remove that recipe. Copy it down in a notebook, physically or digitally. Save it somewhere only you can remove it. Trust me, looking for a recipe only to find out it's been wiped off the internet is so fucking sad. I've learned my lesson one too many times.

; is it js me or is the colouring on the bisexual tag .. A little off putting. I'm js sure there is something missing about it but I can't figure out what. /s

; image description begin: a screenshot of the words " #bisexual " coloured like the bisexual flag. The blue is missing. :image description end

; give me five seconds to go sob !! /lh /pos

if you are a trans boy, especially a teenage trans boy, i wanted to say that as a trans man in their 30's, you have my deepest respects and condolences for what you may be going through right now.

it has become socially acceptable and basically online custom to bully teenage trans boys & mascs, call them cringy, or excuse misgendering them for whatever reason. people put trans boys on this pedestal of "must perform masculinity and manhood to cartoonish degrees" even though they're still children.

people make trans boys fight for their manhood before they can even be boys. i am sorry people can be so judgmental and harsh on you. you are not wrong for wanting to be a boy. you are experiencing something wonderful. it's okay if you still want to be a boy even if people have treated you poorly, or tried to make you feel bad for being a boy. there is nothing wrong with being a boy.

it's okay if you never socially transition. it's okay if you're afraid to come out because it's not safe. it's okay if you never change your outward appearance. it's okay if you try very hard to pass but struggle to. it's okay if you wear "women's" clothing and shoes, bras, makeup, etc., it's okay if you're gay and love other men. it's okay if you're scared of hrt. it's okay if you don't want surgery. it's okay if you mainly occupy girl's spaces still. people will find every reason to pick these things apart and ridicule trans boys for, but they are all perfectly fine experiences that do not make you any less of a boy. you are the one who is in control of your transition, presentation, and state of being- you should be able to prioritize your safety over the comfort of random strangers who have no impact over how you live your life.

i've been put through this too, but later in life as i came out when i was an adult. people still try to make me feel bad for identifying as a trans man, for whatever reason they have in their head to justify hatred of a trans person. i've had enough. there will never be an excuse for how people try to excuse the infantilization and abuse that trans men and trans boys face.

take care of yourselves, no matter what age you are, if you are a trans boy, man, or masc you deserve to know that other trans men care about you, especially when people are scrambling to find ways to punch down on you. there are people who suck, but there are also a lot of people who care about you. keep your chin up. you know who you are

; OH !?? IS THERE A TERM LIKE THIS BUT FOR AROMANTIC !??

Happy Pride to all agneasians!

Agneasian - A term for those who collect asexual spectrum identities because just a few terms don't accurately describe their experience. They may identify as all of their identities at once or be fluid between them.

; ethereal space dad has spoken. It says you identify as a menace to society now, no takesie-backsies

; I love when people try to explain my identity to me. As if I don't know first hand ?? How ?? I identify ?? It's my identity not yours like back off ☹️

; I js found an old carrd of mine and while remembering I used to be a he / him pan and didn't think anything of that ( I'm transmasc & orientated aroace now dammit ), but also my dislikes .. How in the world did I not realize I was neurodivergent. It's just. This whole carrd could count as a diagnostic criteria at this point.