Little Pumpkin Thief

little pumpkin thief

rare vent art from a few months ago

I’m so fucking tired of society teaching young teen boys that it’s ok to comment on peoples bodies. It’s not. On one hand I get sexualized for wearing leggings because 10 years of ballet will give you a butt. Then I’m accused of stuffing my bra and getting called flat, even though I have to special order my bras since my size isn’t common, and that’s expensive. I’ve been harassed from the back of a school bus, told by adults that I need to cover up, and dress codes for wearing something that lays differently on my body since I have curves. HOW IN THE HELL AM I SEXUALIZED FOR BEING CURVY AND THEN TOLD TO HUMBLW MYSELF FOR THINKING IM CURVY?

I got to be honest, reading books about unicorns/pegasi really did make me want a horse😅

When people-- and especially young women-- are attracted to "abusive" and "controlling" and "violent" male characters in fiction--

The fantasy is not about being abused, or controlled.

The fantasy is about a partner who is devoted to you, who takes care of you, who will defend you, to a larger than life degree.

And because it's fantasy, the person doing the fantasizing is in control.

The person having the fantasy knows for sure that when her fictional man says "I'm doing this because I love you" it's true, and not an excuse for abuse.

Because it's a fantasy. It's a story.

"Abusive" romantic leads in stories don't lead to women dating abusers any more than stories about unicorns lead to people buying horses.

So I am writing a story and I have this character right? Well it just so happens that on my bus, there’s a kid with that characters exact name and looks????? And it’s not a common name either????

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