The Moment My Mom Commemorated The Fact That Israel Would Start Bombing In The Beginning Of Ramadan And

The moment my mom commemorated the fact that Israel would start bombing in the beginning of Ramadan and said: “Now they'll know what is like to be disturbed on a Sabbath”, as if this was some good shit will never, EVER get out of my head. Ever.

There.

*Turns into Michael Jackson.* You and I must make a pact. We must bring salvation back. Where there is love; I'll be there, I'LL BE THEREEEEEEEE-

I'm genderfluid. Which means sometimes I'll be a boy. In other times, I'll be a girl. And some other times, I will be neither, or both! My gender will always be changing and I'll not be a single something forever. But, do you know what I'll always be?

Hi, my name is Angel and I go by all pronouns. And I'm gonna answer the questions aimed at anti mspec lesbians and/or lesboy.

Be aware that I'm gonna answer specifically on the mspec lesbian and lesboy discourse because I am a lesbian myself and I am directly affected by this. So, don't expect me to talk on turigirl/gaygirl or mspec gays.

1- I am against the term mspec lesbian and it's derivates because, no 1: Lesbian is not an umbrella term. No 2: Lesbian is exclusive to non men who are attracted in any way, shape or form to, exclusively, other non men. Saying you're a bi lesbian is something that implies that lesbians are open to attraction to men, which is lesbophobic (and sometimes even biphobic, since the reason the bi community was created in the first place is that bi ppl needed a specific space to talk about their specific experiences, clumping the lesbian and the bi women inside lesbianism is against the wishes of the bi community). And, about male/boy lesbians, it's for this same reason. Lesbian is non-men for non-men exclusively. BUT, although, however, nevertheless, I am not 100% against the term of lesboy. From what I have seen until now, this term got reclaimed by masculine lesbians (nonbinary lesbians, butch lesbians, transmasc lesbians, he/him lesbians, etc.) and the meaning got turned into lesbians who are masculine in some form. And I support the term lesboy in this reclaimed sense, but not in the sense of saying that men can be lesbians or can be included in the lesbian community.

2- I am one of those, lol.

3- Abrosexuals? Oh boy, tbh, I interpret abrosexual as an umbrella term, since I've seen some aro/ace flux people using these fluid terms and using abro at the same time. In fact, I saw a gay dude who was aceflux and he used abrosexual because of his acefluidity. So, yeah, completely valid.

4- Bold of you to assume I don't support the terms bisexual homoromantic and derivates, lmao. I prefer people referring themselves as biromantic homosexual than a bi lesbian, let's bfr. Bisexual homoromantic is more specific. It's direct and it doesn't imply that bisexuals can choose nor tries to include men on the lesbian community, like bi lesbian. It simply says that the person is sexually attracted to multiple genders but romantically attracted to one. Just think of it as aromantic lesbian or asexual lesbian. Same logic, not harmful to any of the communities.

5- As long as this boygirl is not a binary boy, they can be a lesbian. Simple and direct.

6- No. I might be a wackass weirdo with self-deprecating ass humor, but I'm better than that. Hot bitches don't bully, they educate.

7- Idk 😭😭😭 but the term mspec lesbian/trans men lesbian never sat right with me, but since many people were accepting of it, or close to that, here on tumblr, I simply sucked it up. Until I tried to observe this discourse these days and came to my conclusion that mspec lesbian & boy lesbian are harmful to my community.

I'm sorry if I'm late, but yeah, it's never too late to talk about shit. 👍🏽

hey so i wanted to ask this cus i've been rlly curious abt this discourse and i want to hear both sides : mspec lesbians && gays , gaybians , && lesboys / turigirls

personally , i'm leaning to the pro side of this discourse because i consider my attraction to men gay in some capacity , because i identify primarily as a male. but i wanted to ask some questions to both the anti , pro and anywhere in between sides !

for pro - mspec gays / lesbians , gaybians , lesboys / turigirls :

[ PT: for pro-mspec gays/lesbians, gaybians, lesboys/turigirls: END PT. ]

what r some reasons u believe what u do? just a basis of ur beliefs regarding it ig

what r some reasons someone might identify as these?

do you identify as one or multiple of these things ?

do you go out of your way to attack ppl who are on the pro side of this discourse? do you just block people who are on the anti side? ( mostly because i've heard stories from both abt getting death threats and such )

for gaybians: why not a different label? like , why not omnisexual , bisexual , or pansexual? why specifically gay & lesbian? ( question given by my friend )

how did u find out abt mspec lesbians / gays , gaybians && turigirls / lesboys? do you think how you found out about it influenced what side you were on?

mspec monos have apparently been apart of the queer community for years , so , do you have any sources and such to back this up? i see it commonly brought up in pro mspec mono spaces and haven't been able to find any myself ( i'm not doubting it! i'm just curious and want to read about more queer history )

for anti - mspec gays / lesbians , gaybians , lesboys / turigirls :

[ PT: for anti-mspec gays/lesbians, gaybians, lesboys/turigirls: END PT. ]

what are some of the reasons u believe what u do? like , just a basis

do u support people w fluid genders / sexualities , and / or multigender people?

if so , why is the case different when someone may be abro but primarily gay?

why are asexual and aromantic lesbians and gays okay but not someone who may identify as bisexual homoromantic? or homosexual omniromantic?

what abt someone who's a boygirl and identifies as a lesbian? are they suddenly not 'girl enough' to identify as a lesbian despite the term technically fitting them?

do you go out of your way to attack ppl who are on the pro side of this discourse? do you just block people who are on the pro side? ( mostly because i've heard stories from both abt getting death threats and such )

how did u find out about mspec lesbians / gays , gaybians && turigirls / lesboys ? do you think how you found out about it influenced what side you were one?

There.

*Turns into Michael Jackson.* You and I must make a pact. We must bring salvation back. Where there is love; I'll be there, I'LL BE THEREEEEEEEE-

I'm genderfluid. Which means sometimes I'll be a boy. In other times, I'll be a girl. And some other times, I will be neither, or both! My gender will always be changing and I'll not be a single something forever. But, do you know what I'll always be?

Just gaslight yourself into being on your dr, it almost worked with me one day. Did I help?

If I see one more "actual shifting tips" post that just says to be nice to yourself or try methods that work for you and to be more confident, i'm going to break my phone