There.

There.

*Turns into Michael Jackson.* You and I must make a pact. We must bring salvation back. Where there is love; I'll be there, I'LL BE THEREEEEEEEE-

I'm genderfluid. Which means sometimes I'll be a boy. In other times, I'll be a girl. And some other times, I will be neither, or both! My gender will always be changing and I'll not be a single something forever. But, do you know what I'll always be?

Reblog to steal chocolate from an aphobe and give it to an aspec

The terf pipeline that assigned female at birth trans folks are just “little girls with internalised misogyny and want to be males to escape misogyny” is bullshit! Feat. My experience as an afab transneutral person.

Hi, everyone! For those who don't know me, my name is Angel and I go by all pronouns (neos & xenos included), and welcome to this simple, but big, post.

I think everyone knows the radfems, also known as terfs. You know, these women whose feminism is just transphobia, racism, ableism, generalisation of womanhood and plain exclusion of anyone who isn't a cishet, white, middle to high class women. Maybe, a little bit of queer women, but only in their criteria.

And I think everyone here knows on their infantilization of trans men and assigned female at birth trans people in general. They always say: “Oh, poor little girl, consumed by outside and internalised misogyny, so she tries to be male so she can try to live happily!! =((”

And I say, bullshit, bullshit, FUCKING BULLSHIT! Talking from experience, even!

You see, even though I was raised and socialized as a girl... I didn't experience that much of misogyny. Hell, probably not at all.

“Omg, that's impossible, how would you do that?” Rapunzel. That's the secret, I lived and live to this day like Rapunzel.

I don't go out to stores that often, I only have one way on my daily basis: Home → School → Home. That's it, that's all it. This is how my life goes since forever.

And when I go out somewhere, I'm 9/10 times around one of my parents or my brother. So, my chances of getting catcalled, s/a'd or something are quite low.

I am a hyper protected kid, that's why I am a pussy. And while my mom was mean and a bigot in general in many points of my adolescence, she had enough sense to not be misogynistic throughout my childhood (things started to go wrong in my life, between me and her, when I started to show signs of non-cisgenderness and gender non conformity, to summarize).

And that gave me time to discover my identity without women hating structure of patriarchal society on the way (gender imposition on max.). In fact, I was reluctant to accept that I identified in a masculine way sometimes, because cis femininity (and probably some internalised transphobia) was too impregnated on my brain, at that point. So when I started to feel side effects of an misogynist society, my identity was already constructed, I already knew who I was, so misogyny couldn't really play a role in it.

To give y'all an idea, the first time I've ever been a victim of misogyny was in 2023, when I was 15, close to turning 16 years old, and I was getting romantically harassed by a boy (he changed schools, so I won't see that nigga's face ever again, THANK YOU LORD 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽) and that same muthafucka went on to say, in the middle of class, that women bad and they be the reason why we fail (based off that fucking Adam and Eve story, btw), directed at everyone who was read as a girl in that class, aka all the girls of my class and me. And, since I'm closeted, I had no choice but only be disgusted at that remark of his.

But, key word, disgusted. Not guilty, not deeply affected like any normal woman would; But disgusted. Because misogyny is disgusting to everyone who's not a misogynistic.

See where I'm getting into? My first contacts with what is misogyny in practice came too late to be experienced from a girl's perspective. Maybe from a fem presenting perspective, since I'm closeted, but I only can view it from a transgender perspective, now.

My transgender identity cannot be affected deeply by misogyny now, because misogyny came too late.

And that's not a case only for me, but for many other trans minors. Many trans kids understand that they diverge from the gender they were assigned at birth, even before getting a grasp of misogyny and/or gender related violence, even when they don't even know the existence of the word trans.

So, in conclusion, transness is not a result of internalised misogyny, but being a nasty girl who dismiss other girls just to get male appreciation is (and not only that, tho, patriarchy has many faces other than just sexual violence).

Bye!!! =3

The moment my mom commemorated the fact that Israel would start bombing in the beginning of Ramadan and said: “Now they'll know what is like to be disturbed on a Sabbath”, as if this was some good shit will never, EVER get out of my head. Ever.

There.

*Turns into Michael Jackson.* You and I must make a pact. We must bring salvation back. Where there is love; I'll be there, I'LL BE THEREEEEEEEE-

I'm genderfluid. Which means sometimes I'll be a boy. In other times, I'll be a girl. And some other times, I will be neither, or both! My gender will always be changing and I'll not be a single something forever. But, do you know what I'll always be?

Okay Tumblr, I've had enough.

I was just scrolling the Nex Benedict tag when I stumbled upon a porn bot. In a tag that really means a lot to a very vulnerable community. Shamelessly. Tagged with not just their name, but a variety of LGBTQ+ tags as well.

Tumblr, we don't want you to remove trans folks for showing the progress of thier bodies.

Tumblr, we don't want you to ban accounts for speaking up about fair treatment.

Tumblr, we don't want you to flag posts on topics that are important to us.

What we want, Tumblr, nay, what we need is for you to stop this from happening. This right here triggers a lot of people and seems very disrespectful to the situation at hand. We need you to start looking into the accounts that unhealthily fetishize our sexualities. We need you to ban the blogs that target trans people just to body shame them. We need you to remove the (bot) posts that invade LGBTQ safe spaces because those tags are trending. We need you to stop destroying the community, and start protecting it.

Tumblr, wake up!