Because They Were Def Teenage Rebels - Tumblr Posts

Jim: If you order them around like a cop, then they're gonna rebel, it's just what they do. Bruce: What, so i'm supposed to let them do whatever they want? Jim: No, I didn't say that i think you should.... talk to them.                            Bruce: No. NO. cause talking doesn't work!                                                            Jim: Not yelling. Not ordering. But talk to them, you know, like a heart to heart.  Bruce: Heart... to heart...? What is that?                                                                Jim: You sit them down and you talk to them, like you're their friend. I find if you talk to them like you're on their level, then they really start to listen... and then you know, you could start to create some boundaries.                                        Bruce: ... boundaries                                                                                         Jim: yeah but Bruce, it’s really important that no matter how they respond you stay calm, you cannot lose your temper.                                                              Bruce: uh... maybe you could do it for me.                                                          Jim: No.