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Inglorious Bastard
In the early years of our cohabitation a movie I wanted to see was in theatres. We had plans to see it, but life had prevented us from going for a few weeks.
Finally, a weekend came where we were free and I suggested we go. He told me he’d “already downloaded it” and “didn’t like it very much.” I was hurt because it was supposed to be a date, and he’d known how much I was looking forward to it.
I was hurt more when I was sorting through his laundry like a good wifey and found that he was stupid enough to leave the ticket stub in his pants pocket.
I confronted him about his lie. He clearly couldn’t explain it away, so he told me that he went alone. I tilted my head and told him that I was pretty sure he went with his ex girlfriend *. He admitted it defiantly.
I was upset.
He told me he lied to me because he knew I wouldn’t take it well and he should be able to see a movie with whomever he likes. If I were a more reasonable person, he wouldn’t need to lie to me.