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pamamanhikan with timeskip! half-filipino! iwaizumi hajime
creds/request from my bb @nanaomiomi (I MISS YOU SM MWAH)
if you don’t know what “pamamanhikan” is, DW I DIDN’T EITHER LMAO
pamamanhikan: meeting your partners family/parents. (traditionally: groom meeting the bride’s family to show marriage is not between just the two people, but the entire family) (ty for telling me <3)
non-gender specified! filipino!reader (idk if it works gender neutrally so i didn't add reader pronouns) enjoy! cw: light language
CONGRATS READER YOU’RE ENGAGED TO KUYA HAJI 🥳🥳
both your families decided to keep filipino tradition, and do pamamanhikan.
you guys agreed, so now iwa and his family are on his way to your house.
both of you have met each other’s families before, and your families know a little bit of each other, so it’s mainly a "get to know each other" session.
when haji’s family arrives, they bring some gifts like their family adobo, wine, and soda.
your family made some delicious food like lumpia, sinigang, and turon for desert. (lumpia: eggrolls, sinigang: sour soup with vegetables and meat, turon: banana with brown sugar wrapped in spring roll wrapper; fried.)
the parents introduce themselves to each other and it’s going really smoothly! the conversation is general and small.
after the small talk, haji will ask your parents for your their permission to marry you.
HE’S LOWKEY SWEATING HIS ASS OFF EVEN THOUGH HE’S SURE EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE
“nay, tay, pinapayagan kong magkasal si y/n?” (mom, dad, will you allow me to marry y/n?) (nay and tay is used a shortened version of nanay and tatay, as a nickname used by your partner in this case)
“oo. pwede yan hajime” (yes. that’s allowed hajime)
claps and cheers from you and his family. (you guys def call him out for being nervous and he denies it)
now, in celebration, you guys eat dinner! sm good fucking food god bless and your families get to know each other.
your moms compliment each other on the foods they cooked, share recipes, and cooking tips.
your dads talk about work and about you two.
again, they’re getting to know each other so they talk about themselves, where they’re from, their jobs, etc.
you and haji will have small conversation while they have their one on one talks and you’ll tease him even more for being nervous from earlier.
“awww was my fiancé nervous on what my parents would say 🥺”- you
*shoves food in your mouth* “no. i don’t know what you saw mahal ko” (mahal ko- my love)
giggles from both of you AND YOUR FAMILIES GIVING YOU TWO THE KILIG LOOK (kilig- giddy feeling toward romance)
you guys won't have many plans for your wedding yet (this is happening a few weeks after he proposed), but you’ll share the little information you two have planned so far like who’s being invited, attire ideas, and a vague idea what the venue will be like/when it would seasonally be.
BE PREPARED FOR ALL THE EMBARRASSING STORIES FROM YOUR CHILDHOODS
you guys will die of embarrassment before you even get married
your dad will show baby videos that are really funny and haji’s parents will show embarrassing photos they didn’t get the chance to show you yet.
(watch one of them be haji’s messy face after eating ice cream HAHAHAH)
all of the parents will give you two advice for married life and relationships in general like to trust each other, make time for each other, never go to bed angry, and more.
CUE THE “kung nasaktan ka yung baby ko sapakin kita hajime ha.” FROM YOUR DAD LMAO (if you hurt my baby i'll punch you okay hajime.)
*nervous gulp* “opo tay” (yes dad)
OFC IT’S JUST A PLAYFUL JOKE BC THEY LOVE HIM BUT just a warning
“hoi, y/n. kung hihirapan ka kasi tigas olo si hajime, sabihin mo sa akin” - haji’s dad (hey, y/n. if you have a hard time because hajime is stubborn, tell me)
“why am i being attacked” - haji
“same to you hajime. i'll throw my tsinelas at y/n” - your mom (tsinelas- slippers)
“WH- WHY” - you
laughs from all of you guys
overall it was a great experience and really fun night for everyone. all of you are now well acquainted and your parents might hang out together sometimes bc they have SO MUCH CHISMIS and enjoy each other
“sige. we’ll be heading out!”
“ingat kayo!”
you kiss haji goodbye and YOUR PARENTS WILL KILIG: “eeeee!!!”
I HOPE YOU ENOYED THAT BB! i tried my best to research to make pamamanhikan accurate as possible but it may be vague.
I RELIED SO HARD ON TRANSLATION SITES FOR THIS PLS MAHIHIRAPAN KO SA TAGALOG BWISIT
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