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11 months ago
[ 18+ blog || minors DNI ]
"I hate what you're doing to your body."
That's because you're comfortable as who you are. I'm not. That's why I'm changing. You can hate it all you like but it's necessary for me.
unless you wanna write my obituary, of course.
being dead sounds just as relieving as transitioning.
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my fam when I asked if I could get a drive down to the hospital for top surgery next year
there's some level of irony in the idea that a nurse hates the idea of medical transitioning
like bro Im doing this to stay alive
I stopped doing a lot of things I loved to do because of dysphoria - my depression stems from the fact Im not who Im supposed to be
these are steps towards me finally being able to do the shit I used to love again - to finally feel comfort and happiness with myself
none of my decisions are made lightly - surgery is a necessity for me and has been deemed as such by my docs
this is FOR ME not for you
my dypshoria got so much worse since this exchange
being supportive really goes a long way
please try to be supportive
or at least consider whether or not something is just not your thing and dont let it cloud your judgement
everyone is different - everyone has different likes and dislikes - different requirements and needs that have to be met
you are not the main character of this story - you dont dictate anothers bodily autonomy - and thats okay
instead of making someone else your business bc u dont feel comfy about it - try educating yourself
find a diverse amount of sources - talk with anyone with experience in regards to the topic - keep your mind open
who knows - you might learn something neat