None Of My Decisions Are Made Lightly - Surgery Is A Necessity For Me And Has Been Deemed As Such By My Docs - Tumblr Posts

vent post vent ftm my fam when I asked if I could get a drive down to the hospital for top surgery next year there's some level of irony in the idea that a nurse hates the idea of medical transitioning like bro Im doing this to stay alive I stopped doing a lot of things I loved to do because of dysphoria - my depression stems from the fact Im not who Im supposed to be these are steps towards me finally being able to do the shit I used to love again - to finally feel comfort and happiness with myself none of my decisions are made lightly - surgery is a necessity for me and has been deemed as such by my docs this is FOR ME not for you my dypshoria got so much worse since this exchange being supportive really goes a long way please try to be supportive or at least consider whether or not something is just not your thing and dont let it cloud your judgement everyone is different - everyone has different likes and dislikes - different requirements and needs that have to be met you are not the main character of this story - you dont dictate anothers bodily autonomy - and thats okay instead of making someone else your business bc u dont feel comfy about it - try educating yourself find a diverse amount of sources - talk with anyone with experience in regards to the topic - keep your mind open who knows - you might learn something neat