I Agree Wholeheartedly - Tumblr Posts

Alright there's some things I need to say to some of you all.

If you are questioning whether or not you have DID/OSDD1, please take a breath and sit down for a second.

I see a lot of you post about how you're worried that you're wrong, that you're faking, that you're making it all up. I understand your fear. But it is absolutely not healthy to completely attach yourself to a disorder when you don't actually know if you have it or not.

You have to be prepared to be wrong.

And, it's okay to be wrong.

Honestly, it's a good thing if it's not DID.

But I understand that you think you know, and I'm not saying that you're wrong. What I'm saying is that you need to be okay with being wrong.

If the idea of being told you don't have DID scares you, I want you to think about why it scares you.

Does it scare you because you don't want to be told you're wrong, or that you maybe don't know as much about your brain as you thought you did?

Does it scare you because you don't know what else could be causing your distress?

Does it scare you to be back to the drawing board in terms of your symptoms?

Or does it scare you because you've attached yourself to this community, to this disorder, to this label?

Please, focus on what you are feeling. Your symptoms, your distress, your trauma if you can. Focus on how to heal.

Don't focus on the diagnostic label. The label is not as important as your healing is. And when you do get to talk to a therapist or psychiatrist, tell them the truth. Tell them about your symptoms and your history. They can help you figure these things out. That's what they are there for.

And if it will be a while before you can, take care of yourself. Honestly, I'd recommend limiting online interactions with the DID community for a variety of reasons. But if you do continue to be active in it: think critically, be open to discussion, and be open to being wrong.

No one should hate you for realizing you are wrong.

i feel like the collector would be a roblox kid

also, i love the yttd fandom and think it’s a lot better than other fandoms i’ve been in, but i feel like we have a problem with infantilizing a lot of characters. like, no, just because shin is physically small, queer-coded, and has been bullied doesn’t mean he’s your “uwu baby boy.” joe may prioritize his friendships over intelligence and grades, but that doesn’t mean he’s completely clueless and oblivious in every situation. nao isn’t an overdramatic dumb bitch, she’s a strong and level-headed woman who has reasonable emotional reactions to heavily traumatizing situations. maybe i’m just getting petty over this, but i feel like the infantilization and generalization of these characters leads people to ignore the development and nuance these characters have and go through. 

sigh. disabled people are allowed to have kids. i hate that this is debated

okay the anon with keeho one ate. let me do one with theo.

theo as a bf probably wouldn't let you go after an argument. oh what's that? you wanted space? yeah yeah have your space but i'm gonna be there with you. he definitely wouldn't let you go far from him. if you wanted to stay in the living room he'll probably in the kitchen minding his own business but still there where he can see you.

he'll let you have as much time as you want but you can't go away from his sight. maybe if you wanted to be in the bedroom, he'll just wait you in the living room when you both finally calm down and are able to have conversations

anon you made my heart clench with this… i agree so much

bf!theo would be fine with you not wanting to talk to him after an argument, he would most likely want to have some alone time to gather his own thoughts too, but you have to be in his presence or he’ll lose his damn mind. if you’re not, then he’d have to call you not long after to come back and talk, because not knowing how you’re doing would frustrate him even further. he knows it’s annoying and he doesn’t want to pressure you, but letting you go wouldn’t help him calm down at all

he would also want to resolve the issue between you by the end of the night if it’s not something bigger that needs to be more thoroughly thought out. theo is not the type of boyfriend who would let you go to sleep mad, definitely not. he’d join you on the bed if you’ve been staying there alone all afternoon and ask if you’re ready to talk about it. after the situation is resolved he’d apologise for upsetting you in any way and pull you into his arms. he’d probably try to uplift your mood with a few jokes or some teasing that he knows would make you smile until you finally fall asleep with a peaceful mind and him being the big spoon

A group of bats should be named a batallion, rather than a colony.

im assuming everyone read 210 and is waiting for the new update by now so.... gyrus x hatsune miku crossover episode when??

i also listen to 100 gecs. like knows like. sorry bb! gyrus, you can't get away with this one

as part of their “getting to know the in-laws” qualification, heather WOULD introduce cardan to the best second-hand bookshops in town.

the era of twinks is OUT. this character design must reign supreme.

I firmly believe the answer to why jon wasn't going out to investigate statements in person in season 1 is because the police won't talk to him anymore after his work in the research department