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Better my mental health,
Ha!
Don’t make me laugh,
My asian mother doesn’t even understand or believe in mental illness
This is SUCH a great documentary for learning Namjoon's thought processes and philosophy. Especially starting at about 10 minutes, it switches to a collection of Namjoon's quotes about his experiences, struggles and motivations. I loved it because it focused less on what was happening externally and more on his internal world.
"When making any observations, I tend to look at both the light and shadows. It's part of my disposition. So even when I reminisce on happy moments, memories of hardships always tag along. I'd think about a time and remember how hard it was backstage or recall what it was like after returning to the hotel.
Since they always come as a pair, when I talk about an impression, it's hard for me to simply say, "I was so happy." In reality, it's not always like that. Then, is the problem with me? I don't think so. I think the problem has to do with that very question about whether we are happy. I want us to be able to ask ourselves more specific questions. Instead of asking a question like, "Am I happy in this moment?" I'd prefer questions like, "Do I love this moment?"
-- Kim Namjoon
What a phenomenal insight.
Just watched the FNAF Movie, it was great
"queer spaces are for everyone but cis men! safe spaces include everyone but cis men!"
okay
that will require stealth trans men to out themselves in order to receive help
that will require closeted trans women to out themselves in order to receive help
that will require nonbinary people who don't ""look nonbinary"" because they look too masculine to out themselves in order to receive help
it will also alienate transfems & trans people who were AMAB who haven't realized they're trans yet from spaces that could provide them a safe place to explore gender & sexuality and be introduced to the idea of being trans
trans people are eventually going to get uncomfortable with your hatred for cis men, because people who were AMAB are gonna wonder if you secretly hate them for being "actually men" and trans mascs are gonna wonder if you hate them for being men at all
people attracted to cis men are going to feel uncomfortable when they try and bring up their love for men including cis men or bring their cis boyfriends/partners/friends to your spaces
there are cis queer men & queer men who blur the lines between cis and trans and they have just as much a right to queer spaces as you do
^ intersex men also exist including intersex cis men
there is never going to be a group of people who it is alright to blindly hate just because of circumstances of their birth or identity and every time you try you are going to end up hurting people. embrace compassion and nuance
edit: to be clear, "cis queer men" includes gay cis men, bi cis men, aro & ace cis men, etc. etc. & cis queer men who are verifiably cis are still very much queer
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MIN YOONGI
This man has all my heart!!!!
Min Genius Yoongi!!!! I love him to the moon and back. From his Gummy smile to the Spitting fire I love every single persona of him. He is one of the best producers I have come across. If I were to define Yoongi I had say he is a complete softie beanie lovely Min Yoongles. I can't express how much comfort this man brings to me and Army in general. His words are so wise and understanding I love him.He is a breath of fresh air in this bad world. Min Suga has a Solution for you.
Feeling bad for my future kids because the only alphabets they will know is A to the G to the U to the STD.....
tw: depressing crap
but also some happy stuff
I was sobbing to lovely last night,
while rethinking my life and why I shouldn’t of just fall out of my loft bed.
but guess what, i didnt
I honestly don’t know what I would’ve done without Tyler telling me that I’m lovely, that I’m worth it.
keep going guys