Aro/ace Are Nothing More Than Socially Accepted Incel

aro/ace are nothing more than socially accepted incel

I said what I said.

Reading again, I realize I was being unfair with the actual aro/ace ones~

I'm not trying to apologize and just unsay, does it even count as a word? it's pretty safe to say there's a ton of incels who use the aro/ace flag as a way to protect themselfs despite still wanting relationships and being sexually active and knowing we don't have any form of support from society, I can't blame them, all of us cope using our own methods and people still see us with the same "all incels thinks women have to fuck with them" stereotype and damn, I'm só tired of it

after reading this one post, it was more personal than most I did 'cause yknow, there's not a lot of people who I interact here and althought it's interesting to see differents perspectives it's also exhausting still seeing the same ones

But aroace people are voluntary. Incel is involuntary. An incel wants to have relationships. An aro/ace person does not. It's the same thing as calling a monk or catholic priest an incel.

After reading my post again I realized that I forgot to clarify

The aro/ace term actually works similarly as a umbrella

I know there's people who experience/feel little to no attraction and I also admit right now I was wrong about excluding those ones, except I can't deny there's also a deceptively high portion of them who actually wants to have relationships but are unable to (mostly guys) and lots of them are either afraid of being associated with the crucified portrait the midia made about incels (I can't entirely blame them, tbh) or still didn't discovered themselfs enough (or even someone else)

it's the first time since 2020 I actually agree with anything from TikTok

New fave

It feels somewhat... good (?) to just say "fuck it, I'm valid just like my feelings" and stop masking to finally be rough without caring at the moment

getting triggered at the start of cptsd: I shouldn't be feeling this, I'm only feeling it because of all those things that happened to me in the past, the past is not happening right now I'm just being crazy and can't keep up with what's real, my emotions are not logical or consistent with what just happened, I need to calm down, I need to be in control, why can't I just control myself, these feelings aren't real, this was nothing why am I feeling like the world is ending and the walls are caving in, there's no good reason for me to overreact to a harmless thing like this, it's nothing it's nothing it's nothing I need to stay rational about this, nobody did anything to me I'm just being dramatic and insane and I need to hide before everyone thinks I'm crazy

getting triggered later in the process: what happened in the past was fucked up but what happened now was also fucked up. I didn't get triggered by nothing. You know what. It's not me. Anyone would be upset by this bullshit. This would make anyone feel dreadful even without trauma, and I just feel extra dread because I've already had a worse version of this happen to me in the past. That doesn't mean I need to be cool about it now, or act like it doesn't bother me, or tolerate it. I had enough of this for a whole lifetime, this entire situation can go to hell.

getting triggered even later in the process: oh I don't care if my reaction is over the top! I'm gonna react this time and I'm gonna let everyone know just how I feel! I absolutely don't care if you think I'm too sensitive, I'm currently pissed off and I have good reasons to be! Answer for your behaviour and why you thought for a second it was acceptable to do that to me!

I like to call Fiora as "%max health true damage anomaly"