Save A Life

Save a life

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ok so yall, i've never dated anyone right? Well, i think(?) i have a gf rn, but im lwk confused?

Cause like, I asked her out and she said yes. But, she stopped texting me, and is bringing one of her friends to our first "date" and idk what to do w/ that info?? Like, im 90% sure she likes me, but im not 100% sure, and bringing a friend doesnt seem like something you would do?

Like, before i asked her out we were texting and stuff all day, and i think flirting?? (again, never dated, idk what im doing) but after i asked her out she kinda stopped texting? supposedly, the wifi at her school is really bad, but idk.

And yk, ive got the Anxiety ®, so i dont know what to do. Besides the date where shes bringing her friend, we have another date planned for this weekend. Hopefully i will get the vibes then??

Cause I dont know what to do, but i really really like her.

anyways, thanks yall! just needed to rant

Boop! I'm proud of you. Life is a shitty thing that's getting more complicated with each passing day, so don't be too hard on yourself because you're doing great. Remember that you are the only person guaranteed to stay with you, so please treat yourself better. Drink some water, get a power nap, eat a snack that will cheer you up, find a hobby that excites you for the next day, and treat yourself with proper respect. You are incredible, so don't beat yourself down over the minor things out of your control, and take a deep breath for me. I hope you smile today, and please remember that your feelings are valid. Your pain, however insignificant you might think of it, is worth acknowledging, and it's not shameful to ask for help to deal with it. I'm sending you the warmest hug I could master. One last thing - please remember that even if your mind might try to convince you otherwise, your life is worth living, and I'll be devasted if you're gone. Have a nice day!

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I'm gonna say this as many times as i need to, even though hella people get mad.

RON WEASLY IS A SHIT FRIEND

have i read/watched Harry Potter recently? No

Do i have feelings about this? Yes

Ok so, Ron abandons them in the 4th and last book right? Which isnt every book, but his reasons were really shit. Like i feel like he was genuinley toxic.In the Goblet Of Fire, Harry is picked right? And he makes it no secret that HE DID NOT PUT HIS NAME IN!

He could have died! And Ron was upset because he didn't show him how to get past the age barrier. And i get Ron is a flawed charecter, and he has his like, self esteem issues. But let me tell you, if he was my friend, i would not take that shit. And i get that he is a part of the trio, but it doesn't change the fact that he was a shit friend sometimes. Which is fine, but it happens like 3 times, and I low-key feel like it is never adressed.

me and my bestie xD

Friends are hard. Like, making friends is nerve racking and all, but also just keeping friends. I'm kind of like an obsessive person, but if i havent seen you in a hot second, i just kinda forget you exist?

But also, its so hard to maintain friendships, even ones that are inportant to you. I have a firend i've known sience like 3rd grade, and we've been friends sience then. They used to be homeschooled, and we hung out so often. We introduced eachother to a lot of our fandoms, and have just been friends for so long. But recently, they got really into dance, and just started going to a private school. It seems like they are doing really well there, and im sooo happy for them, but they also like stopped talking to me.

To be fair, its not all on them. there were a solid couple of months i didnt reach out, but seince then i reach out and ask if we can hangout, and they always say they have dance, which i get, because i play volleyball, and im gone a lot of weekends, but they never follow up? And recently i asked what weekends they are availible, and they never even responded. And i mean, its been a little wierd the last couple times we hung out, but their friendship really means a lot to me.

Out of all the friends ive made in the last like 8 years, i thought they were the one that was gonna last. the friendship just had that vibe, you know? And it just sucks, because i really like them, and I like talking with them, and hanging out. I love their family, their pets, everything. but like, i do think its over. And it just sucks, because im so glad they have a better social life, im so glad their dance is going well, but I wish we could still hang out.