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Ok So In Response To This Poll That I Made Last Night, Why Is The Entire System At Fault For What One

Ok soā€¦ in response to this poll that I made last night, why is the entire system at fault for what one alter did?

Because if everyone was their own separate person outside of the system, then the blame would be placed on that one person who fucked up.

You wouldnā€™t go around blaming their friends, family, and entire social group for what they did, right? Or would you?

Because last I checked, the only person responsible for someoneā€™s actions is themself in the end. You can try to sway them, you can manipulate them, you can convince them, but ultimately they have a final say in their actions.

At least thatā€™s what Iā€™ve been taught.

So please enlighten me on why the entire system is at fault for the actions of one alter? I am just trying to learn why so I can try and better myself and keep all of my headmates from being at fault for my own stupid actions. /gen

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1 year ago

Umā€¦ hey, can you explain this a little more clearly? Sorry the response confused me a little bit.

Why exactly is it 90% the system though?? Not trying to be mean. Just curious.

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Another poll kinda related to the earlier one that is less specific.

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1 year ago
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1 year ago
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1 year ago

For me itā€™s not that I havenā€™t put in the work or tried to heal. Iā€™ve healed a bit since then. Iā€™ve learned and grown from that mistake personally. Itā€™s just the fact that having to deal with my own actions hurting the others in my system sucks.

Iā€™ve heard ā€œsystem responsibilityā€ thrown around sometimes. An ex-abuser of ours who was also a system threw it around too, but in more of an ā€œall alters except the host are bad and should never be trusted or allowed to frontā€ kind of way. Likeā€¦

Something happened, one of us got front locked (and like the bad kind when youā€™re the only one in the front) along with our host. And our host admitted to having trust issues with people due to how we as a system have been hurt in the past. This caused a massive fight with other alters who felt hurt by the extreme lack of trust, despite only a small handful of alters making the mistake of doing things that they now know to be wrong in social situations. Abuser took what they said and explained that ā€œalters shouldnā€™t be trusted. Itā€™s called system responsibility. You have to keep everyone in line. You can never leave the front because no one should be trusted in your system.ā€

Soā€¦ could I also get a better definition on what system responsibility is as well?? Because obviously Iā€™m extremely reluctant to accept that definition our abuser had given us of ā€œno alter can be trusted and no one should ever be in the front alone.ā€

And if that is the definition after all then I am so sorry to Blue and Ghostā€¦

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Ok soā€¦ in response to this poll that I made last night, why is the entire system at fault for what one alter did?

Because if everyone was their own separate person outside of the system, then the blame would be placed on that one person who fucked up.

You wouldnā€™t go around blaming their friends, family, and entire social group for what they did, right? Or would you?

Because last I checked, the only person responsible for someoneā€™s actions is themself in the end. You can try to sway them, you can manipulate them, you can convince them, but ultimately they have a final say in their actions.

At least thatā€™s what Iā€™ve been taught.

So please enlighten me on why the entire system is at fault for the actions of one alter? I am just trying to learn why so I can try and better myself and keep all of my headmates from being at fault for my own stupid actions. /gen

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1 year ago

Ok. Thanks. That helps a lot! Iā€™ve just recently been internalizing how something was specifically my fault because of how an ex abuser took something I had done and apologized for and used it against us when we finally broke off that relationship, so now we face this reputation of being problematic.

Those who view us as problematic also donā€™t care about our side of the story either. They have our abuserā€™s half and thatā€™s it. They have the twisted version of events where many things have been left out of context.

But what you said does make sense now. Thank you for explaining! :)

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Another poll kinda related to the earlier one that is less specific.

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