To Your Most Recent Post, It Sucks To Say But I Think Ppl Think That The Whole System Is Accountable

to your most recent post, it sucks to say but i think ppl think that the whole system is accountable because non-systems think that systems aren’t actually multiple people :( i don’t think system members should have to be responsible for one person’s actions, but it would be extremely hard for singlets to understand that

That makes sense. It does suck though, especially since my headmates have 0 control over my own actions. It just boggles my mind.

Like… I can understand why someone would block the system for the actions of one alter, since it’s the only way to block that alter really, but to hold the entire system accountable for one person’s actions…

It’s something I really hate about being a system. Especially since if I were my own person outside this system they would say I alone was responsible and should be at fault for my actions.

It really sucks that some of the nicest people I know are marked by this and being held accountable for things they didn’t do…

Thank you for answering! It was really helpful!

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heyhey systems !!

doing a quick poll because as a questioning system i am curious about this..

what do yall think about alters dating eachother? (from the same system)

Yeah. That helps a lot actually! Thank you so much! :)

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Ok so… in response to this poll that I made last night, why is the entire system at fault for what one alter did?

Because if everyone was their own separate person outside of the system, then the blame would be placed on that one person who fucked up.

You wouldn’t go around blaming their friends, family, and entire social group for what they did, right? Or would you?

Because last I checked, the only person responsible for someone’s actions is themself in the end. You can try to sway them, you can manipulate them, you can convince them, but ultimately they have a final say in their actions.

At least that’s what I’ve been taught.

So please enlighten me on why the entire system is at fault for the actions of one alter? I am just trying to learn why so I can try and better myself and keep all of my headmates from being at fault for my own stupid actions. /gen

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Um… hey, can you explain this a little more clearly? Sorry the response confused me a little bit.

Why exactly is it 90% the system though?? Not trying to be mean. Just curious.

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Another poll kinda related to the earlier one that is less specific.

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Source: This

Being a factive really sucks, especially if you’re a factive of someone a lot of people know. Because I remember my life, but it’s not my life, but it is as well. Like… I’m me but I know I’m not me, and I’m scared to actually be me in case the orignal me comes into contact with me. Y’know??

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