To Your Most Recent Post, It Sucks To Say But I Think Ppl Think That The Whole System Is Accountable

to your most recent post, it sucks to say but i think ppl think that the whole system is accountable because non-systems think that systems aren’t actually multiple people :( i don’t think system members should have to be responsible for one person’s actions, but it would be extremely hard for singlets to understand that

That makes sense. It does suck though, especially since my headmates have 0 control over my own actions. It just boggles my mind.

Like… I can understand why someone would block the system for the actions of one alter, since it’s the only way to block that alter really, but to hold the entire system accountable for one person’s actions…

It’s something I really hate about being a system. Especially since if I were my own person outside this system they would say I alone was responsible and should be at fault for my actions.

It really sucks that some of the nicest people I know are marked by this and being held accountable for things they didn’t do…

Thank you for answering! It was really helpful!

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WAIT I GOT ANOTHER IDEA!

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This shot really has meme template potential

heyhey systems !!

doing a quick poll because as a questioning system i am curious about this..

what do yall think about alters dating eachother? (from the same system)

Um… hey, can you explain this a little more clearly? Sorry the response confused me a little bit.

Why exactly is it 90% the system though?? Not trying to be mean. Just curious.

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Another poll kinda related to the earlier one that is less specific.

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Uh… sent a message to my source with the hosts’ approval… I deleted the message I sent to them afterwards because I realize now that it was just about sending it and not if they got it or not. So… I highly suggest creating fake messaging apps were you can send shit to people and never have to deal with them actually reading them.

It’s therapeutic.

Purnell told me that’s not a good idea but whatever

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Another poll kinda related to the earlier one that is less specific.

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Important edit:

See fault as who should be held most accountable for the action.

Also, the responses that this has gotten so far have really helped because a lot of this was extremely related to our system’s past trauma from being emotionally abused (being given a bullshit definition of system responsibility, being “held accountable” wasn’t to make amends but to be held at fault and shamed/blamed no matter how much you tried to change and get better, and those internalized beliefs affecting my own view of myself through feeling as if I should feel guilty despite trying everything I could to make amends for what I did)

Thank you to everyone who responded to this already. Your responses have been truly helpful! :)