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Were Getting Ready To Go On Vacation, And I Find Myself Cross With Myself Due To My Carelessness When

We’re getting ready to go on vacation, and I find myself cross with myself due to my carelessness when it comes to packing.

As the body is female, our mother has reminded us many times not to wear certain outfits in fear of some sort of assault. As I am a male, it was something that never occurred to me whilst we pack.

Some alters are expressing concern for the matter as well, especially since it appears such an event has happened to the body in the past but has yet to resurface due to trauma holders keeping those memories at bay.

This has truly given me a new outlook on things, as my fiancée reminds me that she too had a similar fear in our source memories. I am wondering if anyone else has had to deal with these revelations shortly after forming and fronting for the first time.

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1 year ago

Also another quick tip from me:

Bad people are going to try and gaslight you about setting boundaries. Bad people are going to gaslight you for cutting them out of your life.

That happened to us.

When we first left a toxic friendship with an emotionally abusive person/system, we were made to believe that we were the villains. We were the ones who were in the wrong because a persecutor lashed out from the emotional abuse. Actually two persecutors lashed out. But we aren’t the villains for finally allowing ourselves to get out of the abusive relationship.

Same thing happened with different people about 6-7 years ago. Don’t let people be pissed at you for improving your own mental health. Focus on you, loves.

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Hey, if people get mad at you for setting boundaries, set a new boundary with them called “get out of my life.” You are allowed to set boundaries for your mental health. You are allowed to not want to do things. You are allowed to say no. If the person you’re close to doesn’t respect those boundaries or gets mad at you for setting them, they don’t need to be in your life. We’ve learned this lesson the hard way twice now with an emotional abuser. Learn from our mistakes guys. Setting boundaries is healthy and normal in relationships. Those who tell you otherwise don’t care about you and are trying to use you.

Stay safe out there everyone!

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1 year ago

If I wrote a Cry of Fear fic but as if I’m (I’m a Simon Introject btw) writing it now with my current mental health and stuff would anyone read it?? Just curious

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1 year ago

wait guys

I’ve seen some posts saying how easy it is for them to gain new headmates

HUH???

We can’t hardly get any

we’ve got 5

w h a t

(7 now but still)


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