Pretty Sure Im Going To Make This An Advice Blog. I Love Helping People And Sometimes Having A Third

Pretty sure I’m going to make this an advice blog. I love helping people and sometimes having a third party opinion on things can really help. So ask away, either anonymously or through chat. Always happy to help ☺️.

Just out of curiosity

to celebrate reaching 1k, ill be doing blog rates! i will only be rating sfw blogs!

ill rate your blog if you:

• follow me

• reblog this post

• send me an ask asking for a blog rate

ill be using:

url: its okay | cute | great | perfect | i want it

icon: its okay | cute | great | perfect | i want it

posts: its okay | cute | great | perfect | i want it

theme: its okay | cute | great | perfect | i want it

overall: its okay | cute | great | perfect | i want it

following?: no, but i love u! | i am now! | yes

i will be following most of these blogs!! also im sorry if im not harsh? enough but i rly love a lot of these blog sjodjsd

Another list of rules and suggestions since a lot are not on mine. Still making my next post so this is all for today. I’m just skulking around cgl blogs for the night for things that need to be s said. Be good, be safe, and have fun!

Master List of Rules for Littles

A follower of ours asked us if we knew of a master list of rule Ideas for Caregivers to enforce for their littles. So we are going to post this and hopefully those of you starting out in a CGL relationship helpful.

Why are rules important for littles?:

Sometimes when a little is deep in their little space they forget to do the every day things that need to get done. SOMETIMES we need reminders of the things we need to do. Having rules helps us know what needs to be accomplished and with a reward system in place it can be super productive.

RULE IDEAS:

 Clean your room

 Make your bed daily

 Clean up Dishes

 Brush your hair

 Bathe/Shower/Shave/Hygiene

 Drink Water

 Eat 2 healthy meals (follow diet plan if one is in place)

 Color 1 picture

 Read 2-3 chapters in a book - work on reading list

 Finish Homework

 Make sure Work is done

 Journal

 Clean up after Pet

 Exercise

 Plan outfit for the next day

 Work on DIY project/craft project

 Make a weekly calendar/schedule 

 Make sure bills are paid

 Cook a Meal

 Do Laundry

 Finish Chores

 Completing Errands

 No Play time without Caregiver’s Say So

 Wearing certain Clothes/styles

 Diaper Time

 Paci Time

 Taking Medication daily

 Self Care

 Keeping up with Therapy

 Going to Appointments

 Brush your Teeth

 Put away clothing/folding laundry

 Go for a walk

 Track Food Diary

 Log fitness App information

These are all suggestions, and hopefully these help you come up with some of your own!  xoxo The Caregiver & Little Advice Team 

This is so important for so many people to see. You are important. You are worthy. You are deserving of happiness. Don’t let anyone make you feel otherwise.

hey

hey friend

dont kill yourself tonight ok

you have a really pretty smile and i know its not always easy to manage one but itd be a bummer if we never had the chance to see it ever again

youre really important and you matter a lot so stay safe and try and have a nice sleep

Self Acceptance

Acceptance is different for many people. Sometimes it’s easy to accept yourself and your habits, wants, or needs. For others, it may not be so easy. I have never really thought of it before because I am one of those people where it comes very easily to me. However a few days ago someone needing my help came to me about a little space need not sitting well with them outside of their headspace even though they needed it to be happy and that’s what I’m explaining today.

*happiness

Happiness is something that most everyone desires, needs even to make it through their day to day life. However, if we stop our selves from being happy because what makes us happy is a little off putting then we are only making it worse for ourselves. As long as you’re not hurting anyone in any way that they have not fully consented to or hurting yourself then there’s no problem with wanting to be happy. It’s like having a favorite food combo that everyone finds weird or even you find weird and not enjoying it even though you know it tastes amazing. Happiness is not a crime.

*acceptance

Liking something out of the ordinary is not uncommon. Everyone has their own preferences, likes, dislikes, etc. again, as long as you’re not hurting anyone in any way that they have not fully consented to or hurting yourself then there’s no problem with it. If you like that pacifier at Walmart, you buy that pacifier! You like the tea set at toys r us? I’ll write the tea party invitations for you! Diapers put you in your headspace? Diaper up and giggle away! My point is that even if you think your likes, hobbies, headspace activities, or anything else you like to do is out of the ordinary, just remember that if it makes you happy, relaxes you, de stresses you, or puts you in your headspace then there’s nothing wrong with it. Not even in the slightest.

That’s all for today. I hope this is a help to anyone who needs it. If you want help with anything specific or need to talk to someone my asks and inbox are always open day or night. Be good, stay safe, and have fun!

Boost the shit out of this. Had a dog die from anti freeze poisoning by a neighbor cause she barked a lot. I couldn’t save belle but hopefully I can save someone else’s furry family member

Some assholes have been putting nails in cheese and treats in dog parks in Chicago and Massachusetts. Also adding antifreeze to water bowls.

Please watch out for your dogs. And if you find out the address of someone doing this, give me the address and tell no one. I will disembowel them.