Things To Do For Self Concept

🌱 things to do for self concept 🍃

validate yourself

when i say validate yourself, i mean give yourself the validation you seek from others. easier said than done, of course, but it's not impossible. instead of going to ask someone "hey do i look good?" or something, tell yourself it looks good. especially if you're just asking to hear them say it. don't look for validation in others or what others want. look for what you want.

take alone time

not saying you have to completely isolate from everybody but taking alone time to figure out what you're insecure about and to uplift yourself can help. try taking time to do what you want and reminding yourself that you deserve to enjoy these things. take time for things that make you feel confident and comfortable with yourself.

stop comparing yourself

don't compare yourself to anyone else ever. you aren't the same, you didn't have the same experiences, etc. nothing about you is the same, so it makes literally no sense comparing yourself to them. you don't have to be like everyone else anyway. you're unique and not like anyone else and that already makes you valuable. instead of worrying about what someone else has going on, look at how much you have going for yourself.

make a list

make a list of things you like about yourself. it doesn't just have to be about your body either. of course it can be about your body, but it doesn't have to be. it can be about your personality, something you've done, anything. it might take a while to think of anything but that doesn't mean there's nothing good about you. it just means you haven't realized it yet.

let go

when i say let go, im not talking about just one thing in particular. let go of toxic beliefs, thoughts, people, or anything that isn't harmful to you. it's hard to build confidence and get a good self concept when there's someone or something trying to push you down constantly. it might be tough, but get rid of as much toxicity as possible. if there's something you know is causing issues for you, remove it.

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