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who else is abt to have the best day ever tmrw

+*:ꔫ:*﹤ Okay so no more “my love life is dead” it’s ‘My life has and always will be thriving, my love life is raining in pink love heart energy, i have the most amazing sp who treats my like a queen, everything in my love life is perfect absolutely perfect, and everyone else around me can’t stop pursuing me and treating me like a goddess, oh my god everyone just fucking wants me tbh i don’t blame them im so wanted and lovable, there isn’t one person in this world who doesn’t want me and wanna be with me, imma universal desire”﹥*:ꔫ:*+ﾟ

🌱 things to do for self concept 🍃

validate yourself

when i say validate yourself, i mean give yourself the validation you seek from others. easier said than done, of course, but it's not impossible. instead of going to ask someone "hey do i look good?" or something, tell yourself it looks good. especially if you're just asking to hear them say it. don't look for validation in others or what others want. look for what you want.

take alone time

not saying you have to completely isolate from everybody but taking alone time to figure out what you're insecure about and to uplift yourself can help. try taking time to do what you want and reminding yourself that you deserve to enjoy these things. take time for things that make you feel confident and comfortable with yourself.

stop comparing yourself

don't compare yourself to anyone else ever. you aren't the same, you didn't have the same experiences, etc. nothing about you is the same, so it makes literally no sense comparing yourself to them. you don't have to be like everyone else anyway. you're unique and not like anyone else and that already makes you valuable. instead of worrying about what someone else has going on, look at how much you have going for yourself.

make a list

make a list of things you like about yourself. it doesn't just have to be about your body either. of course it can be about your body, but it doesn't have to be. it can be about your personality, something you've done, anything. it might take a while to think of anything but that doesn't mean there's nothing good about you. it just means you haven't realized it yet.

let go

when i say let go, im not talking about just one thing in particular. let go of toxic beliefs, thoughts, people, or anything that isn't harmful to you. it's hard to build confidence and get a good self concept when there's someone or something trying to push you down constantly. it might be tough, but get rid of as much toxicity as possible. if there's something you know is causing issues for you, remove it.

[[pick a card]] three affirmations to help your confidence

[[pile one]]

i deserve to choose myself

my peace is worth more than people's entertainment

i don't need anyone, i choose to have people around me

[[pile two]]

my kindness does not make me weak

i don't have to be perfect to be great

my passion only makes me stronger, my emotions are a gift

[[pile three]]

nobody owns me but me

im looking forward to seeing myself grow

my past is behind me, past people are beneath me

soul bloom 💐

Monday. 28/08/2023

With Love,

B 🫀

trust your intuition, trust the process. things will fall into place as they must. 🫀

GROWTH IS NOT LINEAR.

be patient with yourself.

Aché 🫀

chronicles ⭐️

because you are alive you are capable 🤲🏾

with love,

B 🫀