Can I Ask Why My Future Spouse Fall In Love With Me
Can I ask why my future spouse fall in love with me
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sure sorry for my late response I've been a bit busy
they like how strong you are emotionally. you probably went through a lot of things that led you to set more boundaries. you learned to stand up for yourself and not lower yourself or standards for someone who isn't for you. they like that you can be independent sometimes and you like to do things for yourself. they like seeing how much effort you put into things and seeing you being attentive to what you're doing. you try to do everything at once and they wanna help you deal with things, even if you're stubborn about it. I feel like you're stubbornness is one of their favorite things and they find it cute how serious you take it. you give kind of tomboy energy too even if you don't present that way. they find that cute too.
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hii hope ur having a good day, can i ask u about my future career? i rlly wanna work in the movie/fashion industry, acting/modeling/anything creative. i live in a smaller town in japan and i want to move to tokyo so bad to be surrounded by the local creatives. my biggest fear is to work normal corporate jobs but i've always felt somehow restricted to reach my creative pursues, can you please tell me what do you see?
sure sorry for the late reading
have you tried monetizing your current creative work more? you can start already if you post or sell art. there isn't much holding you back now besides you. if you wanna work in fashion, draw some designs, study design videos, see where you can go from there. if you wanna do drawing, study anatomy, post your art if you're ready, see where it goes. don't let other people's expectations hold you back. if you wanna do something creative, don't let anyone stop you. try to brainstorm about what you really wanna do the most and how you can start. set goals to work towards but make sure they're reachable.
I'll be very busy this week readings may be delayed
you're smart enough to know the difference between resting and rotting. you'll be happier when you choose to spend your time off restoring your energy and preparing for the next busy day instead of oversleeping and mindlessly consuming content.
11:55 1/20/24
Hey guys!
I feel like there’s going to be a ramp up in issues related to Covid-19 and respiratory infections. Please take SERIOUS Covid-19 precautions and prepare for the worse :/
Sorry to bring scary news. But I felt the need to share.
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pac — what's the drama? (ex edition bc that's all the messages were about 💀)
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@ pile one
your words have HURTTTT someone. if this was someone you had to cuss out, I understand. it caused a lot of growth for them. this was like an awakening for them. they had to realize how they act isn't aligned with how they view themselves. you set boundaries to protect yourself and they weren't having it. they couldn't grasp the idea that you don't have to obey them and they aren't the main character. you went through some kind of heartbreak before this situation started but you actually learned from it. you realized you don't wanna experience that again and did better. you probably operate in a more logical way and hide your emotions until you're really comfortable with someone. after you experienced that heartbreak, you could have gotten into short lived relationships a lot and flings to protect your feelings. they see you in your power not worrying about them and it hurts them even more. don't go chasing them, let them enjoy the situation they put themselves in.
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@ pile two
if you don't let your ex go immediately... there's nothing to like. the drama is that they're a piece of shit and you're still thinking about them. if they cheated once, they'll cheat again. if they used you, they'll use you again. if they replaced you, they'll replace you again. I need you to be so serious, do you really think someone like this is worth your time? you need to stop talking to people about this person and focus on yourself. a lot of people around you are lowkey haters too so you shouldn't be telling them much of anything. do you have any projects/goals of your own right now? besides things to do with them, of course. you're trying to rest but you're still worrying about your ex so how are you relaxing? 😭😭 you need to block them asap. ill tryyyy to be nice since I can see you're going through it but please have some standards for yourself and others. no, dating people like them will not fill that void. YOU need to fill that void by loving yourself enough that you don't need love from random losers to feel worthy. instead of being sad about the things you can't change, work on the things you can.
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@ pile three
i wanna start off by saying this pile is not for everyone. then i wanna point out how annoyingggg you and your ex are 😭😭 ive been getting this piles energy all in the other readings even when it didn't make sense with the other piles messages. i swear y'all need to stop being stubborn. if you like them, you like them. I pulled the lovers and kept channeling let em know through this entire pac. i get you guys are all mad at each other but it doesn't even seem like the breakup was that serious. it seems like it was just a petty argument, moving homes, or a fight from way too long ago to still be upset about. you guys might not be realizing the things you did wrong too. im not gonna tell you to text your ex or anything though. just let things happen naturally. you have to maintain a balance. don't deny your clear feelings but don't be obsessed. you're independent but not overdependent. accept how you feel and do your shadow work. there's not a whole lot else besides that to do. if the same cycle is repeating with them then maybe try doing something different. i hate to be one of those "your ex is coming back" tarot readers but y'all are killing me.