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Keep spreading positivity. Don't give up. Somewhere a door full of opportunities is waiting to be opened and it can only be opened through positivity. P.S. I am also in a few fandoms so there might be some fandom related stuff too.

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An Important Issue

An Important Issue

Fitz does not have “anger issues,” and referring to him as having them, even if your intentions are good, is harmful!

“Anger issues” does not refer to getting angry sometimes

“Anger issues” are an actual medical condition that Fitz does not have

Saying he has them is at best invalidating to those that do, and that’s not even considering the amount of hate Fitz gets in the fandom, and the way using the term passes it onto the people who have the condition.

I understand that many of you are trying to draw him sympathy by using the term, but since he does not have them, it only worsens the situation.

This is a quote from SophitzMallowmelt on the wiki (who has since left the fandom):

I have actual anger issues and have as a result researched them very intensively and this is so insensitive and prejudiced! Fitz does not have anger issues. I have read these books many times, and not once did I think he had anger issues. Being diagnosed with anger issues requires you to have constantly gotten overly angry many times for reasons that don’t justify that level of anger. Fitz doesn’t at all fit this. He got angry in Exile, but that was when his father literally was in a coma and DYING. How would you feel if your parents were DYING? Not too good, huh? Anyways, no psychologist counts anger during a period of grieving as being unreasonably angry. Especially since Fitz just smashed some stuff and told Sophie to leave. That’s not unreasonable at all! And in Flashback? Alvar tortured Sophie! Believe me, Fitz could not get diagnosed with anger issues if he tried.

Fitz’s anger is also not atypical for hormonal teen boys. His progress throughout the series without treatment backs this idea up (that it is primarily hormonal and grief related). And that adds even another layer to consider—that saying Fitz has anger issues perpetuates the narrative of “people with mental illnesses can just force themselves to be better.”

If you must talk about Fitz’s anger, I recommend calling it simply that: anger. Or if you must, “coping through anger.”

Please note that I do not have anger issues. I am just doing my best to boost the voices of those that do. Educated correction is welcome.

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