Monday. 28/08/2023

Monday. 28/08/2023

With Love,

B 🫀

what would you even do with a b*tch like me! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Self. ft Keke.

40 Examples of Self Abandonment 🤕👎💭💔

Self-abandonment means not taking care of yourself, your needs, and your feelings. It's like ignoring what's good for you and not being kind to yourself normally in a way that benefits everyone but you.

Not eating well or exercising.

Pretending to be happy when you're not.

Working too much without breaks.

Staying in a bad relationship.

Letting people use you.

Forgetting about things you enjoy.

Not saying what you want.

Always doing things for others.

Not asking for help when you're sad or stressed.

Being alone when you need friends.

Saying mean things to yourself in your head.

Giving up your dreams for others.

Avoiding problems instead of solving them.

Never taking time to relax.

Ignoring how you look or feel.

Not asking for help when things are too hard.

Trying to be perfect all the time.

Doing things that hurt you, like drugs or danger.

Changing who you are to fit in.

Not being yourself and doing what others want.

Ignoring your body when it needs rest or sleep.

Letting others make decisions for you all the time.

Keeping your feelings bottled up inside.

Surrounding yourself with people who bring you down.

Not pursuing your interests or hobbies.

Saying "yes" to everything, even when you're overwhelmed.

Putting up with disrespect or mistreatment from others.

Not giving yourself credit for your accomplishments.

Skipping important appointments or check-ups.

Holding onto grudges and negative emotions.

Comparing yourself unfavorably to others.

Not taking breaks when you're stressed.

Neglecting your financial well-being and overspending.

Ignoring signs of burnout or exhaustion.

Avoiding seeking help for mental health struggles.

Ignoring your own intuition and gut feelings.

Overcommitting and spreading yourself too thin.

Constantly seeking validation from others.

Letting fear hold you back from trying new things.

Dwelling on past mistakes and not forgiving yourself.

Vintage Settings

Intro to the Sheacore/ Nomadcore Aesthetic - Fashion

Clothes are generally light weight and loose fitting, to accommodate for the warmth. In winter use that opportunity to layer up with sweaters and jumpers.

●Linen Gowns

●Sarong Wraps

●Laffayas

●Two piece wrappers

●Maxi Skirts and blouses or bralettes

There is nothing that surpasses the beauty of natural fabrics like:

■Linen

■Cotton

■ Wools

■ Hemp

■Wax Prints even more so when natural dyes are used to decorate them

Headwraps can be intricately tied or hung loosely or not wore at all

Clothes can be as covered up as exposed as you like, however longer clothes are more commonly worn but it’s hot and anything goes, the general rule of thumb is that the more exposed clothing is generally one piece garment like a wrapper

The style takes alot of inspo for various African countries and tribes particularly the nomadic tribes across the continent :)