Alright I Found The Video.

we’re also treated like a fetish but yeah it’s like being a black femme means if you have a crush on someone anyone at all the first question you have to ask yourself is always ‘do they even like black women?’ and more often than not the answer is no lgbt ppl talk a lot about that ‘falling in love with a cishet’ thing as a rite of passage as a queer black nonbinary woman I can absolutely say racially it feels exactly the same and I’m not even talking interracially either there are plenty of black ppl of all persuasions and genders who would never date a black woman it’s fucked up and exhausting antiblackness misogynoir ^^ prev tags