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THIS. And Another Great Way To Manipulate Doctors Into Your Favorite Also Involves Sayings Like:
THIS. And another great way to manipulate doctors into your favorite also involves sayings like:
“A (friend or family member) of mine is dealing with the same symptoms and conditions. Their doctor told them that…”
“Really? The doctors told my (friend or family member) that (insert symptoms here). What do you suggest about going about this?”
Surely, there are other ways to say these examples, but the point is that you refer to a close person in your life and mentioned how they got help by their doctor because the oneness of reputation matters more to enough doctors than the care of their patients, particularly if you come from marginalized and intersectional backgrounds. Doctors in the United States are incentivized to push drugs without care because the system is based on profit and not care. It will change one day soon and for the better, but for now you’re just needing to survive and you matter to be here when we get to that point in care.
i think a LOT of you with chronic conditions should learn this one magical phrase to get your hospital doctor to shit his entire pants, which is leaving the room and saying "im going to go discuss your behavior with the ethics committee, i think you might need a reminder of what your job is"
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