Dreamsthatdream - Trad Young Punk

"I want as many babies as God gives me" wife ❤️🤝❤️ "I will love, provide for, and protect all of you" husband

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Wanting to do this to a woman one day factors in a surprising number of my decisions lately... 💀

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I believe it stems from the primal instinct: ooga booga, woman carry baby, me hunt mammoth. It just manifests differently now, since, well, no more mammoths.

For a lot of men, providing for their woman is one of their love languages. On the one hand, you show yourself as capable, successful, etc. and on the other, you take some kind of worry off the shoulders of someone you love and (hopefully) see them relax and be happier and more carefree because of your efforts.

So, as long as you want to stay committed to him, don't feel bad for him paying for everything. If you really trust him, don't be afraid to be reliant on him. Independence can only go so far in a relationship and that goes for both sides. If you want to return the gesture, find something he can rely on you for.

Men, as an extremely independent woman, why do y'all wanna be a provider so bad when you're really in love with someone?? I went from paying for and doing everything for myself and now never lifting a finger or dropping a cent when he's around and it confuses the hell out of me. It scratches a very primal part of my brain but also it makes me feel bad :c

While feminist wombs lie empty, breeder wombs are growing the future. The future is for bountiful bellies and big families. The future is fertile.