I Feel Like I've Always Been Pretty Open And Explicit About The Purpose Of Fandomnoire But As It Gains

i feel like i've always been pretty open and explicit about the purpose of fandomnoire but as it gains more exposure and more followers, i want to be even more explicit about it.

while i've seen how unkind and ignorant some people in the kpop fandom can be, i've received nothing but positivity and love from all of you and that makes me feel good and enables me to be more open in this space because i want to create a safe space for others but of course, also for myself.

i want all readers of color to be able to feel at ease here, whether you're black, latinx, aapi, mixed with those races in any combination or whatever. but a thing i feel like maybe i should note when i'm trying to be inclusive is to also be aware and to make others aware that i'm a black woman and so my writing and the language i use reflects that experience and that's my personal primary way of thinking. this isn't discriminatory nor is it exclusive, it's just unapologetically specific and i think/hope that all readers can find refuge here and take what they need from my writing - just like black women and other women of color have to do when they venture into all-white creative spaces in fandom.

tl; dr: i guess what i'm saying is sometimes what i write or put in the fic recs tag will be very general and easily palatable for all and sometimes it will be more specific. if you weren't offended when you were reading about pink nipples and being the sibling of some idol in every kpop fic (omg don't get me started on my hate for this trope) that was supposed to be reader insert fiction, then please don't be surprised if you come here and start reading about brown nipples, afros, curly hair, braids, wash day, and feeling like a fish out of water as the reader because these experiences are just as valid as any other.

fluffy jiminie ♥

babes, from me to you, this blog is *chefs kiss* 😚🤌🏽

as a 6ft, genderfluid, queer ass nigga, i couldn't really get into some of the bts x reader stories/imagines i've read (them "towering" over me is v unlikely lolol. & let's not get into the pale/petite defaults & size kinks cause tbh i'm the one hiding things on the top shelf to be petty & they'd steal my hoodies). tbh it lowkey made me want to write my own lil pieces, but i don't think my lane is drawn out/super detailed stories. unless it's a juicy smut ofc ☺️

now don't get me wrong, i love a good character fic, but the ones with "y/n" basically being my (almost) complete opposite (& some of the terminology be killing me lmao maybe it's my lack of imagination but if it's too off the wall i'm out 🤷🏽‍♀️), it's harder to maintain the flow of the story, especially if it's supposed to be reader inclusive. but then i found your blog! i love that your stories leave more room for a reader's imagination because they're more general/member focused & hilarious & the fact that the default is black 🙌🏽 i thank you 😂

AHHHHHH thank you, love!!!

YOU are *chef's kiss* (even if you petty as hell - i would love to see you hiding shit from kim namjoon on the top shelf 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣 that's a reaction i might have to write 🤔) and i think that even if you don't write super detailed fiction, the world still needs and deserves to hear you voice. if you ever decide to write, you know who'll be here to reblog it.

i am also the same way with some of the things that i read. that's why there are currently only 2 things i've rec'd here so far lmao. it's not because my standards are super high but because some things just take me out of the zone, especially, as you have said, when they're meant to be reader-inclusive and then show their ass about which readers they really mean. so i don't want to rec something that is good but semi-questionable and have y'all think i'm on some whack ass shit but i also don't want to be disrespectful to the author by reblogging it and adding in some sort of caveat 😬

i'm glad that you're here and i hope that you stay! 💜

18 DAYS OF HOSEOK ∟ Prompt 12 - Favorite Photoshoot BTS x LOUIS VUITTON Men’s Fall-Winter 2021 Show in Seoul

When are you doing thirst night againnn

Ooooh I love that you're asking for another thirst night 🥹

Since I failed Min Yoongles for his bday (forgive me y'all - I haven't had the internet for a week and I've been moving 💜) let's celebrate with a belated birthday Thirsty Thursday!!

Currently accepting all your prompts, asks, reactions, MTLs, headcanons, thotty thoughts, etc and especially open if you have Suga-specific requests.

I also have a few still in the inbox to get to so I'll post those as well. ☺️

Happy thirsting, beloveds! 😘

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