Cant Wait For This To Be Me-

cant wait for this to be me-

my most masculine clothes, its always

"it helps me pass, and to the onlooker, I am an average man."

my relationship with clothing pre-transition was never more than “this is fine i guess”

but now when i wear something i feel good in im hot as fuck and i fucking know it

things most of society needs to learn:

-99% of queer and trans people are not going after your children, we just want the queer and trans children to be safe and feel reassured that everything will be ok.

-men can be abused, SA'ed, raped, attacked, have eating disorders, etc. yes, more women have these things happen to them, which is terrible, but that doesn't mean we should erase male victims. that'll just make it so men never admit to having these things happen.

-language evolves. you are not being forced to say "people who menstruate" or "people with penises", etc. but its more considerate to people who are trans/gnc. with that being said, yes, you have a right to not use these terms.

-most people use pronouns, so saying "pronouns in bio" or "pronoun/neopronoun user" is not a dunk. and yes, neopronouns are new and we all know much like the Croods you think everything new is dangerous, but it doesnt really matter if someone uses them.

let me know if I missed other stuff, and I'll add it here:

@forgie-forg has added," Also! Note that medical institutions should be obligated to use 'person with a uterus' 'person with a penis' etc because not doing so leads to trans people being denied healthcare. Nobody minds what terms you use to personally describe yourself"

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will do

We should all deliberately post pictures of trans people and trans flags on every major Christian holiday going forward, just to piss off the "love thy neighbor" crowd.

this is so cute 😭🏳‍⚧

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Hey, I'm here again, a bit better, but I just found out that my parents set up a meeting with my school coordinator (? I'm not sure if this is the word in english) today, in 30 minutes, to talk about the one(1) time I used the masculine toilet (to inform that I should not be using it, I know it comes from a place of worry, but I did it just cause I got """confused""" as a boy) and ask about psychologists to send me to. Thw problem is: I live in Brazil, which is already bad since here the life expectation of trans people is 32 and (last time I checked) we are the country that kills the most queer people in the world, and I'm pretty sure in a conservative town. I'm a bit scared just by that, and that gets intensified by my dad saying, to my face, that he think being a boy is a phase, and my mom implying that she sees me as a masc lesbian (I'm gaybian with a preference that shifts, so no) makes me scared.

I just needed to put this out, thanks for taking the time to read it. I'm not sure if I want advice or just to say it, but thanks anyway.

-Leo

Hey kiddo, it's great hear from you again. I'm so sorry you have all that going on- and honestly I understand why you would be scared. Whatever happens, I'm here, night and day, and you can always come talk to me. I don't think you're confused or that it's a phase- and I'm so sorry you're around people who do think those bigoted things.

Please feel free to reach out anytime, I'm always here to listen and offer support. I love you and I'm so proud of you for being who you are.

- dad x

sometimes I don't want to be "Eric the trans man", sometimes I'd rather just be "Eric the man" because it feels like some people only see me through the lenses of my gender identity and expression.

a cis man probably wouldn't have to worry about that sort of thing.

honestly even though nobodies noticed, in real life ive been trying to erase my own transness from the minds of everyone who isn't a friend.

but nobody forgets.