Lmao Why Does Going To The Dentist Make Me Horny

Lmao why does going to the dentist make me horny

Sexual tension really do be more fun than the sex itself sometimes. I said what I said 🫣

I hate how teen sexuality is handled, as if saying "teens shouldn't be sexual" will turn off hormones and instincts and sensory + dopamine cravings and everything else that contributes to making people horny

And it leads to danger for these kids. I was one of these kids. My puberty was wild and I was obsessed with sex by the time I was twelve while knowing I shouldn't be, that it was morally bad for me and that I was a bad and gross person for it, especially because I was a little girl and little girls don't get horny. Girls are the objects, we cannot lust. We cannot want or crave.

And this leads to letting people use us and do what they want without knowing what we actually want because we're not ALLOWED to want. And then if things go bad, well, it was our fault for wanting sex at all! And then we end up in our 30s, still stupidly horny because that's just who we are sometimes, with a lot of trauma to unpack surrounding sexuality, learning to communicate about it because talking about sex was bad to do, and maybe HPV and a precancerous cervix from all the secret dangerous experimentation we did as teens. :)

And if we talk about this even from the perspective of "this is about my experience as a teenager who has grown up" you get people accusing you of all sorts of creep behavior. I don't want to be involved with anyone who isn't in their mid 20s thru 70s personally. I just don't think kids should grow up believing that sex is the worst thing they can be interested in so that they have to hide the bad sex they're having with people twice their age and not talk about it ever to anyone. It's fucked up to me. Kids deserve proper sex education that isn't steeped in puritanical values and heteronormativity.

Tbh, I made this account to be a feminist and talk about sex positivity issues related to women. But. I think men have it worse than us in some ways.

A woman who discusses having sex is worried over and treated as a victim. A man who has sex is suspected of being a creep or predator. I think we gotta stop seeing men as the enemy.

Feminism was about equality, not a battle between men and women. We've lost sight of that.

Lotta posts on here about multiple orgasms but very few posts on here acknowledging people who take time to finish, can only cum once, or don't even have the goal of having an orgasm every time they have sex. You're not unsexy. You're not broken and it doesn't mean you're having sex wrong. Once I heard someone say the goal can just be "feels really good" and it was like the first damn time it occurred to me due to the whole *frustratedly gestures at stigma around not cumming during sex*.

Women with a high sex drive are valid.

Men with a low sex drive are valid.

For people of all genders and sexualities, you're valid regardless of whether your sex drive is high or low.

It's okay if your sex drive doesn't meet the stereotypes associated with your gender.

Experiencing a lot of sexual desire is fun! It's sexy and interesting and puts something interesting into each day.

Experiencing very little sexual desire is also fun! It gives you one less thing to worry about, and allows you to focus on other things.

Your libido levels are valid regardless of society's expectations of you!