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…sooo can u be, like, cupioromantic and alloplatonic at the same time
But as someone who feels this way, SAME!!!!
WE ARE NOT BETTER. WE ARE FORCING OURSELVES TO CONFORM TO SOCIETY. WE’RE JUST VERY PASSIONATE ABT OUR FRIENDS
Also as an aromantic who’s societally acceptable bc of my life dreams, it feels like my existence cheapens ppl who are aromantic but r apl n their experiences bc we use the same labels??? Just some posts by apl’s getting to me ig
aroace alloplatonic culture is trying really really hard to not give people the wrong idea about all aro people while coming out.
(very frustrating because I don't want people to think I'm 'better' than apl or allosexual aros, or that aro and ace are the same thing, but also I want to get across what my identity specifically is.)
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FUCK YOU EXCLUSIONISTS!
I FUCKING HATE YOU!
Stop telling aroace people they don't belong in aromantic / asexual spaces!
DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA WHAT THAT CAN DO TO A PERSON!?
We have all suffered through the same journey!
We have all doubted ourselves and our identities!
We have all sat in our beds crying because we don't feel in ways that others expect us to!
We have all heard or seen people say that we don't belong in our community!
Can't we at least support each other!!!!!!!!!!
We can't go on fighting each other if we haven't even gotten our place amongst the others.
As someone who rlly wants a qpr, a life partner, and the life society ‘expects’ me to have, it’s irritating to know that I’m both the ‘wrong’ type of aro and the aro that our romance obsessed society is comfortable with. Like, both ways it sucks????? I’m not compensating for my aromanticism, I just want to hug and kiss someone and get tax benefits??? Like, I’m cupioromantic so I DO want the butterflies in my stomach romance, but also I understand that I just want a bestie for life that I can live with. It’s hard to explain, but, like, let people exist in peace??? Sexuality is a spectrum for a reason. Someone can be aro allo or allo ace, and both labels are valid?? So are homeromantic bisexuals but that’s another rant…
Point is, let partnering aromantics and non-partnering aros exist and peace unless you want to be friends
And DON’T insinuate aro allos are gross/ derogatory words for promiscuous that I’m not gonna use/ sex addicts
YOU ARE VALID NO MATTER WHAT
People really need to stop talking about aromantic people in such a way to suggest we need to, like, make up for our lack of romantic attraction? This ties into the whole "aromantic people can still date" and "aromantic people can have qprs" and "aromantic people still feel strong platonic love" pattern I keep seeing where it's as if people are trying to say "don't worry, they can still be mostly normal" and it is so frustrating to me as a non-partnering aromantic person and is likely even worse for aplatonic and loveless aros.
Where Home Once Was: The Loss of Safety and Comfort
One can no longer say they are tired and want to go home because home is no longer what it used to be; it has changed drastically and been completely destroyed. There is no home left to return to; everything that once symbolized safety and comfort has vanished.
Life is tough right now. I don't know how many times we've had to relocate, and my grandparents' health is deteriorating.
We urgently need your support to evacuate them for necessary medical treatment. Additionally, we need assistance to rebuild our family's life, continue our education, and complete our studies.
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Hello my dear friends, I am Muhammad Ayyad from Gaza. Our lives are terrible and hideous. My family has nothing left but to hope that you will support and help us. After 9 months of war we are exhausted, desperate, hopeless and displaced. Homes and livelihoods have been lost and gone with the wind. Things drive us crazy and crazy. The lowest level of life cannot be reached. Water and healthy food have become a dream that we must achieve. What makes our lives worse is the constant bombings and killings. That is why I ask in this post to help us overcome these unbearable circumstances and move from hell to safety and peace. Your support can help us be safe and alive, so friends, you can support us either by directly donating whatever you can or by sharing my campaign links so that generous people can know about our tragedy and pain. Remember, your small contribution can make a big difference in the lives of many children whose health condition deteriorates every day. Let their lives change and make them feel happy with your generous contribution.
Of course! I did check to make sure it is vetted so please help where you can!
welcome everybody
I am Muhammad Imad Abdel Latif Sharab
First, after an aggressive war on Gaza City and its revival, we were displaced from our 3-storey house in which I and my family of 3 members live.
My father's family consists of 8 members
My grandfather, may God have mercy on him, was martyred by occupation aircraft on 12/14/2023.
The one who was martyred while he was leaving the house to check on our house next to him, which could not be reached due to a brutal enemy who does not differentiate between anyone in death, went out to check on our house, which we were not in because of my displacement to Rafah, me, my father, and our families due to the intensity of the fighting in Khan Yunis, and after that A few days ago, our store in which my father and brothers work was bombed by occupation aircraft. He was working to gather his strength from it and meet the needs of our house, which no longer exists due to the bombing. We ask you to help and contribute, even if just a little, by donating to us so that we can compensate for a little of what we lost.
Many thanks to you 😢
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If you do not understand the words well, because I am not very good at English, but I ask you to help me with money so that I can compensate for even a little of what I lost, and I am very grateful to you, my dears😢🥺😢🥺😢🥺🥺😢
Hi,
I am Youssef from Gaza🍉🇵🇸.
I am 19 years old.
I support a family of 5 people because my father is sick and cannot work.
I work all day for $2 to provide a living for my family and medicine for my father.
Our house in Khan Yunis was completely destroyed.
I hope you can help me by donating via the link or posting 🍉🍉
My link has been verified:
@90-ghost
@el-shab-hussein
no. 255 on el-shab-hussein/nabulsi's sheet
Please donate🍉
https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-youssef-provide-medicine-and-shelter
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🚨URGENT NEED🚨
Don't be afraid, my child!🥲
Hello, I am Rajaa from Gaza.
A mother of a child who has known nothing in his life except fear, hunger, deprivation, killing, and the sound of bombing.
He has no fault and doesn't realize what is happening. He wakes up terrified from sleep and doesn't understand what is happening around him. He cries from the sounds and doesn't understand why.
Every time I must not show my fear and laugh so that he doesn't startle. 🇵🇸❤️🍉
We must every time reassure him and convince him that this is a game that requires laughter, but he laughs out of fear and anticipation, as if he feels that what we are experiencing can't be a source of happiness and laughter.🍉🫂
The truth is that what We are experiencing something so horrific that it can't be described. We are unable to even express it. But the mind of my child will not comprehend all this cruelty and injustice.💔🩸
Son you have been deprived of safety, tranquility, health care, food, water, and even clothes.😟💔
And yet, I will remain by your side, my beloved, and I will not leave you. 🫂🍉
Don't be afraid, my child. This world contains everything and its opposite.
There are good people, my son, who always strive for good.
We will definitely find someone to help us survive all of this We will find someone to support us to rebuild our dreams and our lives.. Only then will you realize how full of satisfying and wonderful things life is.. which I will not stop telling you about until you live them..
Help me get my son to safety and see him grow up in a place suitable for living as he deserves. Join me to find a safe life and a better future for him Our children deserve a normal life like all children in the world
Thank you 🇵🇸🍉