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New game 💕💕💕

There won't be any game after January 3rd as I will be getting busy.

So try to join in.

This time let's find out possible career of future spouse

You need to

1. Follow me

2. Reblog this post

3.And send in your D1 chart, D9 chart and D10 chart.

Edit: pls use farfaraway for generating the charts (I prefer north Indian charts)

Oh my gosh!!!!! Thank you for reccomends. I'll defo take it up to style myself better!!!!

Hi, can you please give me an idea based on my natal chart as to fashion aesthetic I could explore and dress better for myself?

(I identify as she/her - Heterosexual cisgendered female)

I've read multiple times that either I'd have to dress as my Ascendant or Venus or MC or Lilith and I'm throughly confused.

Hello,

definitely quiet luxury or old money aesthetic. Look more into that. But you could also look well in timeless pieces, thrifted dresses, vintage clothing or flowy dresses due to having Cap Sun at 12 (Pisces) degree. You can also wear suits, but also athleisure. A simple white shirt and jeans with some loafers would suit you. But also like red, orange, purple, pink, burgundy, navy blue colours. You look sooo good in red with that Aries Moon. You might also rock unisex clothes or oversized clothing, such as blazer. You might also look for to @emitaz style for inspiration, I would recommend! Any hair, hairband accessories would look really good for you as well.

Take care,

@astroismypassion

Reblogging because I need this. Fr.

How to Stop Procrastinating by Managing Your Emotions

Procrastination happens when we delay doing things, and it's often connected to our emotions. Feelings like being afraid to fail, feeling worried or stressed, getting bored, or lacking motivation can all contribute to procrastination. To stop procrastinating and get more things done, it's important to learn how to handle our emotions better.

Boredom:

Break the task into smaller, more engaging sub-tasks.

Find ways to make the task more interesting or challenging.

Set a timer and work on the task for a specific amount of time, followed by a short break doing something enjoyable.

Feeling Overwhelmed:

Prioritize tasks and focus on one thing at a time.

Break the task into smaller, more manageable steps.

Delegate some parts of the task if possible or seek help from others.

Use tools like to-do lists or task management apps to stay organized.

Anxiety:

Practice deep breathing or mindfulness techniques to calm yourself.

Challenge negative thoughts and replace them with more positive and realistic ones.

Start with the easier or less intimidating aspects of the task to build momentum.

Set realistic expectations and remind yourself that it's okay to make mistakes.

Self-Doubt:

Focus on past accomplishments and successes to boost your confidence.

Seek support or feedback from others to gain reassurance.

Remind yourself of your skills and capabilities to tackle the task.

Use positive affirmations to counteract negative self-talk.

Perfectionism:

Embrace the concept of "good enough" rather than seeking perfection.

Set realistic and achievable goals for each task.

Recognize that mistakes and imperfections are part of the learning process and growth.

Indecisiveness:

Break decisions into smaller steps and make one small decision at a time.

Set a time limit for making decisions to avoid overthinking.

Trust your instincts and make the best decision you can with the information available.

Apathy or Lack of Interest:

Find aspects of the task that align with your values or long-term goals.

Break the task into smaller, more manageable parts and focus on completing one at a time.

Reward yourself for completing the task to make it more appealing.

Stress or Burnout:

Practice stress-reduction techniques such as meditation, exercise, or spending time in nature.

Break tasks into smaller steps to reduce the feeling of overwhelm.

Prioritize self-care and take breaks to avoid burnout.

Feeling Uninspired or Creatively Blocked:

Engage in activities that stimulate creativity, such as brainstorming, mind mapping, or seeking inspiration from others' work.

Start with a simple and basic version of the task to get the creative juices flowing.

Collaborate with others or seek feedback to gain new perspectives.

Fear of Success:

Identify and challenge the negative beliefs or fears that may be holding you back.

Visualize the positive outcomes of completing the task successfully.

Focus on the benefits and personal growth that come with success.

Impatience:

Break long-term goals into smaller milestones to track progress.

Practice mindfulness to stay present and patient throughout the process.

Remind yourself that progress takes time and effort.

Lack of Confidence:

Celebrate your past accomplishments to boost your confidence.

Seek support and encouragement from friends, family, or mentors.

Focus on building specific skills related to the task to increase confidence.

Avoiding Discomfort:

Acknowledge that discomfort is a natural part of growth and improvement.

Break tasks into smaller steps and tackle the more challenging aspects gradually.

Remind yourself of the long-term benefits of facing discomfort.

Overestimating Future Motivation:

Practice discipline and commit to starting tasks even when motivation is low.

Set specific deadlines for tasks to create a sense of urgency.

Establish a routine that includes regular work on the task to build consistency.

Omg. Thank you so much. I was just thinking about going on a hiatus with me and him being friends. Also, I should make an effort to communicate this with him. I am thrown off but I hope to land on my feet.

Heyyy Ambitious woman,

I'm a huge fan of your blog. I just need your wisdom on this situation.

My guy friend and I have been great friends and he confessed that he liked me two years back. I declined stating that I was not interested in him, after which he said that he got over his liking towards me romantically. Our friendship continued and Fast forward to now, he states that he's never stopped liking me as more than just "friends".

Honestly I'm kind of heartbroken that the guy I'd share my life milestones with, introduce to my future spouse and maybe be an honorary member at family functions will never happen.

I'm angry at the fact that if he didn't have the stomach to get over it, he shouldn't have even bothered being such good friends with me.

How do I make peace with this situation?

Hi angel <3

It's understandable that you feel heartbroken and angry about the shift in your friendship dynamic. It can be challenging when feelings resurface after being declared resolved. It's understandable that you feel disappointed and upset.

I don't think its his fault that he developed feelings for you. Feelings happen and are not always within our control. He may have genuinely believed that he had moved on from his romantic feelings, only to realize later that those feelings still existed. It is not productive or fair to assign blame or fault in matters of the heart. Think about how it would be for you to get over your feelings for someone.

What's important now is how both of you navigate this situation with empathy, and respect for each other's feelings.

I know it feels disappointed because you care about him and now he switched the dynamic and plans you had for him in your life. It could be helpful to have an open a conversation with him, expressing how you feel and seeking understanding. Communication can provide clarity and help in finding a resolution that works for both of you. Maybe give each other some distance or give him a different role in your life moving forward.

Here's my goals for 2023 this year and after deliberating for a month, here I go;-

Drink at least 3 litres of water a day. Be hydrated.

Eat healthier and cut out junk food gradually. Indulge in food meaningfully and enjoy what is being served.

Have deep sleep and wake up fresh every morning.

Dress accordingly to my body type and wear clothes that flatter my silhouette.

Have gratitude, a positive mindset and always bounce back if life knocks me down. Always try.

Do not give naysayers the time of your day. What is not coming your way, you're protected from.

Establish boundaries if people cross them and be upfront if someone hurts/insults you. Stand your ground. Be assertive.

Always read a judgment a day. Keep up with the news. (Law School Edition)

Trust the process. Seek excellence. Learn to enhance the "how", know your "why", make mistakes. That's how you grow. Seek knowledge and seek to understand the world.

Always keep up with your hobbies. They allow me to express myself better.

No procrastination. No shitty excuses. I cannot be where I want to be by being who I am currently. I need to consistently do better.

Have bath, TWICE A DAY. Keep up your skincare routine at least 4 times a week.

The right people will gravitate towards you. Don't worry. Just be yourself. It'll all workout for the best.

If you happen to have money, don't waste on frivolous things. Save up and invest wherever you can. You'll surely be able to multiply your wealth. Plan for your future.

Pray everyday. Journal everyday.

My vision for western wear:

My vision for Indian Ethnic wear:

My Vision of a good lifestyle:

My vision for my work:

My vision for my affirmations:

✨ Wish me luck y'all. I know you can do it. Here's to a fabulous 11 months ahead for all of you. ✨

Hey friend, I hope I can ask a favour from you. I’m a black non-binary lesbian going through a tough phase as Both of my parents are openly homophobic and transphobic. I've organised a crowdfunding to solicit for support to evacuate my home, it's been help for me. Please consider to donate,RT,share to reach a large audience with support . Anything helps at the moment.🙏❤️

Hey,

I totally understand where you're coming from. Hey y'all, I hope you can truly help her out in anyway possible.

FACTS. OMG THISSS IS SO TRUE.

“Perhaps one did not want to be loved so much as to be understood.”

-George Orwell

"It was as if someone had handed me the moon, and what does one do with the moon?

What does one do with a life when one had expected to be dead?"

— Marya Hornbacher, Waiting.

Facts. Honestly so so true.

🎯 Placements that indicate a person to be a strategist?

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• PLACEMENTS THAT INDICATE ONE BEING A STRATEGIST •

♟ Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, and/or Ascendant in Taurus, Gemini, Virgo, Scorpio, and Capricorn

I am well aware that some placements I've listed above are detrimental or in fall, but hear me out. Regardless of planetary dignities, these placements have their own forte's.

For example, Mars in Taurus is in Detriment — and so is Moon in Capricorn. But if you put the planet of aggression and Taurus together, you got someone who knows when to strike, and when to practice their infamous patience and calm. People can't trigger these natives into acting brashly. They have the calm rationale that other placements might not have. This gives them the edge when strategizing in high-stress environments.

Same goes for when Capricorn is combined with the planet of emotions and feelings. Capricorn would know the time to exercise the healthy boundary between emotional expression and logical approach. Therefore, they can use the appropriate strategies when dealing with manipulative people they have to work with, for example. So, if you have the respective placements listed above, detrimental placements can be used to strategic purposes.

♟Mercurial, Plutonian, Uranian, and Neptunian natives

Mercury dominant natives are a given here. We know how their geniuses work. They can strategize in a classic "chess master" way, and they can see everyone else's strategies. Furthermore, if their Mercury is well aspected in other personal placements, this gives them an extra edge of being friendly and approachable; which makes these natives much more effective and deadly in strategizing.

Plutonians are also expected on this list. As we know, this planet governs earthly treasures that are hidden away from plain sight. Now, these natives can access those "treasures" and insights that most people completely ignore or miss out. It wouldn't be a surprise if these natives have a literal archive of chat and message screenshots, and have those receipts for their disposal. Please don't cross these people if you want to keep your reputation intact.

Uranus dominant people, on the other hand, have a different way of approaching strategy. Based on my personal observation, Uranians are the type who will "show their card on the table." While other placements are keeping their secrets, these natives' strategy is to keep an open book. They're friendly, easygoing, and yes, odd. But it's with this oddness that drives people away from taking advantage of their open-book strategy because in all seriousness, you will never be able to predict a Uranian's next move. While their tactics are public, no one can follow their moves. Hence, they keep everyone on their toes. That's how their strategy in life works.

People need to understand that Neptunians (Neptune dominant), they are operating on a higher stream of consciousness. Most people think of these natives as sleepyheads, and always up in the clouds. But when they get down to business, they can use their uncanny ways of getting information from sources unknown. They just know what's up, who's who, and why's why. They can be steps ahead of everyone but no one's paying attention cause people underestimate these natives.

♟Personal Planets in the 3rd, 7th, 8th, 10th, and/or 11th Houses (especially if it's a Stellium)

Just as mentioned above, the 3rd house is the home of Mercurial attributes. So, this is another given placement. The same goes for the 8th house (Plutonian), and 11th house (Uranian).

Now, the 7th house might not be given much attention when it comes to a house that also gives a strategic edge. But if you think about it, the Descendant actually plays more power in your chart! This house rules over our interpersonal relationships; such as your romantic partners, the family you end up making with your chosen partner in life, and even close business partners. You don't have to be manipulative towards these people in your life to call yourself a "seventh-house strategist." But if you use this house for the better, you'll be able to choose the optimal and best people to be associated with. If personal planets land in this house, you can use interpersonal strategy to select the best life partner to be with!

I also want to give a special shout-out to the 10th house. This Saturnian house is your classic character which plays the long-game. They are very patient when it comes to executing their plans and strategies, and they don't squabble on meaningless behavior. They know that every action and word counts. Most people would say these natives are so serious in life, but that in itself is their strategy. They don't get too comfortable in things that seem too good to be true. They only trust themselves, and their ability to discern which is move would benefit them and their plans the most. This gives me Amy Dunne vibes, for real. 👀

♟Pallas (Athena) conjuncting or positively aspecting Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, and/or Ascendant

This post will not be complete without mentioning Pallas. Regardless of your gender identity or sexual orientation, the feminine power of Pallas that's either in conjunction (or positively aspecting) your inner planets can make a huge impact in your chart if you channel it.

She rules the ultimate wisdom, intellect, and battle strategies that you can utilize in your life. This goddess is not seduced by any manipulative people who may enter your life that can speak sweet nothings. This goddess' head is in the game. If you have this placement, you're someone who can see past the veil of trickery that most people fall into. You see other people's tactics, and you use this to your own advantage to adjust your strategy. Furthermore, this placement is very good for establishing (or even reviving struggling) businesses. You think ten steps ahead of everyone. Anyone would be lucky to have you on their team!

Honorable Mentions:

♟ Mercury and Mars in 5°, 6°, 8°, 10°, 17°, 18°, 20°, or 29°

♟ Natives that were born under the Waning Crescent (Balsamic) Moon

These people have a well-rounded, "aged" perspectives in life that makes them very careful and strategic in their life plans because they already know the outcome of most of their decisions.

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