Here's My Goals For 2023 This Year And After Deliberating For A Month, Here I Go;-

Here's my goals for 2023 this year and after deliberating for a month, here I go;-

Drink at least 3 litres of water a day. Be hydrated.

Eat healthier and cut out junk food gradually. Indulge in food meaningfully and enjoy what is being served.

Have deep sleep and wake up fresh every morning.

Dress accordingly to my body type and wear clothes that flatter my silhouette.

Have gratitude, a positive mindset and always bounce back if life knocks me down. Always try.

Do not give naysayers the time of your day. What is not coming your way, you're protected from.

Establish boundaries if people cross them and be upfront if someone hurts/insults you. Stand your ground. Be assertive.

Always read a judgment a day. Keep up with the news. (Law School Edition)

Trust the process. Seek excellence. Learn to enhance the "how", know your "why", make mistakes. That's how you grow. Seek knowledge and seek to understand the world.

Always keep up with your hobbies. They allow me to express myself better.

No procrastination. No shitty excuses. I cannot be where I want to be by being who I am currently. I need to consistently do better.

Have bath, TWICE A DAY. Keep up your skincare routine at least 4 times a week.

The right people will gravitate towards you. Don't worry. Just be yourself. It'll all workout for the best.

If you happen to have money, don't waste on frivolous things. Save up and invest wherever you can. You'll surely be able to multiply your wealth. Plan for your future.

Pray everyday. Journal everyday.

My vision for western wear:

My vision for Indian Ethnic wear:

My Vision of a good lifestyle:

My vision for my work:

My vision for my affirmations:

✨ Wish me luck y'all. I know you can do it. Here's to a fabulous 11 months ahead for all of you. ✨

Omg. Thank you so much. I was just thinking about going on a hiatus with me and him being friends. Also, I should make an effort to communicate this with him. I am thrown off but I hope to land on my feet.

Heyyy Ambitious woman,

I'm a huge fan of your blog. I just need your wisdom on this situation.

My guy friend and I have been great friends and he confessed that he liked me two years back. I declined stating that I was not interested in him, after which he said that he got over his liking towards me romantically. Our friendship continued and Fast forward to now, he states that he's never stopped liking me as more than just "friends".

Honestly I'm kind of heartbroken that the guy I'd share my life milestones with, introduce to my future spouse and maybe be an honorary member at family functions will never happen.

I'm angry at the fact that if he didn't have the stomach to get over it, he shouldn't have even bothered being such good friends with me.

How do I make peace with this situation?

Hi angel <3

It's understandable that you feel heartbroken and angry about the shift in your friendship dynamic. It can be challenging when feelings resurface after being declared resolved. It's understandable that you feel disappointed and upset.

I don't think its his fault that he developed feelings for you. Feelings happen and are not always within our control. He may have genuinely believed that he had moved on from his romantic feelings, only to realize later that those feelings still existed. It is not productive or fair to assign blame or fault in matters of the heart. Think about how it would be for you to get over your feelings for someone.

What's important now is how both of you navigate this situation with empathy, and respect for each other's feelings.

I know it feels disappointed because you care about him and now he switched the dynamic and plans you had for him in your life. It could be helpful to have an open a conversation with him, expressing how you feel and seeking understanding. Communication can provide clarity and help in finding a resolution that works for both of you. Maybe give each other some distance or give him a different role in your life moving forward.

Genius

Reblogging because I need this. Fr.

How to Stop Procrastinating by Managing Your Emotions

Procrastination happens when we delay doing things, and it's often connected to our emotions. Feelings like being afraid to fail, feeling worried or stressed, getting bored, or lacking motivation can all contribute to procrastination. To stop procrastinating and get more things done, it's important to learn how to handle our emotions better.

Boredom:

Break the task into smaller, more engaging sub-tasks.

Find ways to make the task more interesting or challenging.

Set a timer and work on the task for a specific amount of time, followed by a short break doing something enjoyable.

Feeling Overwhelmed:

Prioritize tasks and focus on one thing at a time.

Break the task into smaller, more manageable steps.

Delegate some parts of the task if possible or seek help from others.

Use tools like to-do lists or task management apps to stay organized.

Anxiety:

Practice deep breathing or mindfulness techniques to calm yourself.

Challenge negative thoughts and replace them with more positive and realistic ones.

Start with the easier or less intimidating aspects of the task to build momentum.

Set realistic expectations and remind yourself that it's okay to make mistakes.

Self-Doubt:

Focus on past accomplishments and successes to boost your confidence.

Seek support or feedback from others to gain reassurance.

Remind yourself of your skills and capabilities to tackle the task.

Use positive affirmations to counteract negative self-talk.

Perfectionism:

Embrace the concept of "good enough" rather than seeking perfection.

Set realistic and achievable goals for each task.

Recognize that mistakes and imperfections are part of the learning process and growth.

Indecisiveness:

Break decisions into smaller steps and make one small decision at a time.

Set a time limit for making decisions to avoid overthinking.

Trust your instincts and make the best decision you can with the information available.

Apathy or Lack of Interest:

Find aspects of the task that align with your values or long-term goals.

Break the task into smaller, more manageable parts and focus on completing one at a time.

Reward yourself for completing the task to make it more appealing.

Stress or Burnout:

Practice stress-reduction techniques such as meditation, exercise, or spending time in nature.

Break tasks into smaller steps to reduce the feeling of overwhelm.

Prioritize self-care and take breaks to avoid burnout.

Feeling Uninspired or Creatively Blocked:

Engage in activities that stimulate creativity, such as brainstorming, mind mapping, or seeking inspiration from others' work.

Start with a simple and basic version of the task to get the creative juices flowing.

Collaborate with others or seek feedback to gain new perspectives.

Fear of Success:

Identify and challenge the negative beliefs or fears that may be holding you back.

Visualize the positive outcomes of completing the task successfully.

Focus on the benefits and personal growth that come with success.

Impatience:

Break long-term goals into smaller milestones to track progress.

Practice mindfulness to stay present and patient throughout the process.

Remind yourself that progress takes time and effort.

Lack of Confidence:

Celebrate your past accomplishments to boost your confidence.

Seek support and encouragement from friends, family, or mentors.

Focus on building specific skills related to the task to increase confidence.

Avoiding Discomfort:

Acknowledge that discomfort is a natural part of growth and improvement.

Break tasks into smaller steps and tackle the more challenging aspects gradually.

Remind yourself of the long-term benefits of facing discomfort.

Overestimating Future Motivation:

Practice discipline and commit to starting tasks even when motivation is low.

Set specific deadlines for tasks to create a sense of urgency.

Establish a routine that includes regular work on the task to build consistency.

FACTS. OMG THISSS IS SO TRUE.

“Perhaps one did not want to be loved so much as to be understood.”

-George Orwell

Oh my gosh!!!!! Thank you for reccomends. I'll defo take it up to style myself better!!!!

Hi, can you please give me an idea based on my natal chart as to fashion aesthetic I could explore and dress better for myself?

(I identify as she/her - Heterosexual cisgendered female)

I've read multiple times that either I'd have to dress as my Ascendant or Venus or MC or Lilith and I'm throughly confused.

Hello,

definitely quiet luxury or old money aesthetic. Look more into that. But you could also look well in timeless pieces, thrifted dresses, vintage clothing or flowy dresses due to having Cap Sun at 12 (Pisces) degree. You can also wear suits, but also athleisure. A simple white shirt and jeans with some loafers would suit you. But also like red, orange, purple, pink, burgundy, navy blue colours. You look sooo good in red with that Aries Moon. You might also rock unisex clothes or oversized clothing, such as blazer. You might also look for to @emitaz style for inspiration, I would recommend! Any hair, hairband accessories would look really good for you as well.

Take care,

@astroismypassion